Are men actually more forgiving than women about physical appearance?

[Anonymous]

Just look at social media as example. You'll find women of all different types of bodies that get attention from men regardless. Men don't get that same type of attention from women. Women are much less forgiving and more selective (which is fine). Women are not evil for having stricter standards

[Telekinetic-Potato]

I think women care more about a guys personality by a lot. Like appearances only make a small change if you take all woman and cut off

I think women care more about a guys personality by a lot. Like appearances only make a small change if you take all woman and cut off the top 5% of appearance oriented woman and the bottom 5% of the worst looking guys.

But with men, if a girl is beautiful we will put up with exponentially more issues. In the beginning at least.

I think for guys it's more like

((The guys self precieved attractiveness)÷((physical attractiveness of girl^3)*(emotional attractiveness of the girl!))) = the willingness to date.

That's simplified quite a bit but even the full equation is vastly more simple than the math a woman does before almost anything. And since I don't know how to type delta notations or conditional piece wise thresholds. Which really is the heart of male decision making. I can't even begin to attempt a more accurate math for men.

[Asker]

Why do so many womem date toxic and dangerous men then if character and personality is valued more?

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Because of their insecurities. It's a similar dynamic to guys who game all day every day. Or people who use over drink. It's a form of escapism.

[Asker]

Or maybe some women are just attracted to that because it turns them on

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Well we were having a conversation about why it turns them on. It's a bit of a higher order of thought we were looking to explore.

[Cyfris]

No in my experience women are attracted by many more things then physical appearance. Where as men the amount of things other then physical appearance we are attracted to are far fewer so therefore physical appearance is weighted higher for men than woman.

[Asker]

Women still have an attraction barrier though you have to meet to be considered a potential mate. If you don't pass that barrier its gonna be very hard to by pass with your character qualities

[Cyfris]

There is a minimum yes but a girl who is a seven is more likely to date a four then a man who is a seven because a man that is a four in looks with a seven figure bank account is a five and if he is great with kids he is a five point five and if drives racecar and skydives he is a six to a woman where as to a man a woman that looks like four looks like a four and the other things men value are less in quantity giving her a lower max potential of a five.

[Asker]

Men are likely to date the woman for who she is then

[MissSunshine2]

Don't they? I've observed that short men and fat women often seem to get married. I'd honestly not thought about it, but maybe we are less so. Its definitely true that there are guys for every body type of woman.

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

So that’s not “forgiveness” that’s hypersexualization. It means regardless of what women look like or do there will always be men who look at them as objects of sexual desire before they see them as people

[Asker]

Do you know anything about the person upon seeing them?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Other than what’s visible? No

[Asker]

Exactly. The only information is seeing what they look like

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, and to look at someone and decide they’re your perfect partner based on nothing but sex appeal is incredibly shallow. Whether or not you agree with that being sexual objectification isn’t my problem to deal with

[Asker]

You ain't wanting to get to know someone you don't find attractive. Stop it

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

I’m asexual, you’re talking about this to the wrong person

[Caughtulookin]

My problem is most women see me as a money tree and not a person. Many women will follow me out to my car from public places just to see what car i drive but im very good at not wasting money. Most womens first question is what is your job?

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, that’s objectification. Except when men do it to women, it’s about sex

[madhatters4]

i don't think we can make these gender based decisions. it's based on the individual

[Asker]

Oh come on now. Generally speaking men have a wider range compared to women on what they find attractive body type wise

[madhatters4]

do you have some science or are we just dealing with anecdotal evidence... thus opinions

[Zack-Bann]

I would say the opposite
Women can be charmed by a personality or by lifestyle access
Many ugly dudes land hot chicks that way


But the opposite is rarely true
Many men settle for average to below average looking women because they don’t have better options
But physical attraction remains an undeniable factor in how men view dating

[Asker]

Women care about looks too. There's still an attraction barrier men have to meet for the other qualities to matter. And most people are statistically average looking yet so many women date ugly men

[Anonymous]

A lot women today are pretty immature. I get attraction is important. But women grow out of this typically by their mid 20's. The ones that didn't in the past became leftover women. Equality is a good thing! But with a significant number of women it has made them irrationally selective (at least for someone who wants to have children someday). And that's the thing, a lot of them don't. At least not till they hear that biological clock ticking loudly. But by then most the quality guys have either opted out of dating/having a family or the have already been snapped up by the women who knew from the get go that good men were limited. And all of this is IF she has the willingness to lower expectations, which at that point most still aren't. Generally they wait till 40 or 50 when their sexual marketability is pretty much through the floor.

[RavVid]

Women have a short shelf life. So men know that cute girl we are dating is going to be far less cute in just a few years. So we have to be more tolerant.

[Wodens_Apprentice]

"Women are not evil for having stricter standards" But it's evil when they expect men to drown their standards due to a lack of self awareness. It happens all the time in cucked western media.

[Kelley1]

It depends. For a one-night-stand or other short-term relationship, men are far less choosy. For marriage, men may be more choosy.

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Women are still less picky for marriage

[Shrimpenjoyer]

*more picky

[Kelley1]

@Shrimpenjoyer I don't know whether, for marriage, women are more or less picky than men. Men should be more picky because, for marriage, the risk is four times greater for men than for women. However, 90% of men are too stupid to realize how risky marriage is; the result of laws and family courts that greatly favor women.

[ammar12343]

Every time I go out in public I see hot women with average ass dudes.

[Asker]

I see the complete opposite

[Caughtulookin]

Could that be a jealous reaction?

[ammar12343]

I’m already married to a woman who’s more physically attractive than me so idc lol

[Asker]

Congratulations

[ammar12343]

Thanks bro 😎

[KostasKouvalis]

Yes, I agree. Majority of men will comprimise and settle for the girl they can GET rather than the girl they want. But women, NOOOOOOOOO. Everything has to be PERFECT

[exitseven]

No, men are more visual spo they put more emphasis on looks.

[Asker]

That doesn't mean men are more strict about looks. If anything because they're more visual that means they can look at all kinds of women and find them attractive

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Not really.

Social media may give that illusion sometimes but it's not really the case

[Asker]

Sometimes? It's all the time

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Well it depends on which platform

[Asker]

Twitter, Instagram

[Shrimpenjoyer]

Both very toxic

[Anonymous]

I think men are a lot more realistic and accepting to physically appearance not to say I haven't meet some petty shallow men before.

[Sal_Monella]

I think we measure character more. We understand that a beautiful woman can be a landmine.

[kerem2NT]

I disagree.
Women have already made their choices.
They are just waiting for the right time.

[Anonymous]

Only if they are drunk, drugged, desperate, horn-dogs, or short-sighted.

[AviatorTom]

Yes, simple enough.

[LC75LC71]

Eventually pussy is well.. good enough.

[beefcakebradybatson]

I don't like fat broads !!!

[Asker]

How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast in the morning?

[beefcakebradybatson]

What does that have to do with my not wanting to lay my #blackboyjoy on a fat broad?

[Asker]

Its a simple question

[beefcakebradybatson]

Wouldn't like it much.

[KimmySchmit]

I believe so.

[supercutebutt]

Lol!

[Anonymous]

Yes.