Do you know why many NATO countries are saying no to Donald Trump about helping him out in Iran?

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The USA was the NATO country who struck Iran first with missiles. Since the USA struck first they aren’t considered the victim of an armed attack. The USA is the aggressor.
NATO is about defense.
NATO is not about helping the aggressor. NATO is about helping the member country who is a victim of an armed attack.
Do you know why many NATO countries are saying no to Donald Trump about helping him out in Iran?
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