Have you ever been bullied, and how did you handle it?

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Zack-Bann · Accepted Answer

I was mercilessly bullied when I started school as a kid. I hated every day. It felt like an endless punishment for a crime I didn’t even commit.

Then one day I saw a kid from my class pick on my little brother.
Then I realized that my own weakness was bleeding over to my family.

So I grabbed the kid and threw him down a flight of stairs, then I dared him to come up.
He couldn’t even stand up.

After that I responded to every bullying, big or small, with as much violence as I could.

Note that I was a much bigger kid than average so I had a major physical advantage.

Only once I took it too far and the kid barely survived.
Still I didn’t feel any remorse. When he started breathing my first reaction was to spit on him.

Funny enough I was never punished by the authorities.
Every fight I ever got into was started by someone else.
I hated fighting. Never wanted to harm anyone.

But i learned that it doesn’t matter if or not I like violence. When it’s the only solution it needs to be taken.

all the bullying ended a few years later and I even became friends with some of the people I got into fights with.
Even the one spat on
(I saved him from being crushed by a bar at a gym 10 years later and we mended fences)

exitseven · Accepted Answer

I was bullied in Junior high school. There was a kid in 9th grade that got left back so many times he was 17 years old. He used to pick on my a lot. Other kids did as well.
I joined a gym that was in the next town. This was a long time ago before Arnold got famous and working out with weights was something that was considered weird. I worked out in this place so nobody I knew would see me.
However, I stayed with it and by the time I was in 11th grade the football coach asked me if I would tryout for the team and the gym teacher noticed that there was something going on with me and he asked me what I was doing.

4ngelic · Accepted Answer

I was often lightly bullied in school because for most of it I was at least a bit chubby, and I was incapable of verbally defending myself for some reason. It never got too bad as I was always friends with a couple people that did care about me and would interveine, and often had kinda 'popular' friends as well. I never dealt with it myself, it was always them or other classmates who thought it was mean who'd defend me. It was always about my weight and because I was a bit 'submissive'. Thankfully eventually I grew a spine and balls around 15, and never had problems after that for the remainder of my fat era.

emeraldsaphire · Accepted Answer

Middle school was a war zone! All the girls in my school were out for blood. I got bullied mostly for being slow to developed and when someone noticed I kept my stuffed horse in my book bag (her name is Pona and I still have her XD) Iol, all the stupid things that I got bullied for are coming back. I even got bullied a little for being part Asian. I'm white passing, but my Grandma who is Japanese would come to school functions sometimes, so the kids found out.

Honestly I just ignored it. I thought I was better then all of them anyway. And they were just jealous. Ya girl was a toxic teen and preteen XD

msc545 · Answer

Yes, when I was fifteen, this kid in my class kept bullying me for about two weeks. He would push and shove and punch me on the shoulder and verbally harass me. I finally punched him in the throat, not knowing exactly what might happen, and he wound up in the hospital. If you don't know what this can do, or even if you do, don't ever do it unless you intend to kill the person. I didn't really get in trouble at school, but my parents took me out for about a week just to let things cool off. The kid never came back.

Anonymous · Answer

I threw a rock at his head and didn't miss. I got into a shitload of trouble at school and ended up having to see a psychologist and all that. I got the whole violence isn't a solution speech, to which I said, "but it worked". Still, I wouldn't do it again that way. I could have knocked his eye out, which would have been more than he deserved and probably have made him full of revenge for life. I solved another bullying problem later in life using nothing but sugar. In a gas tank. Hmmm... I guess that was costly.

alice55 · Answer

I was a lot from the first Time i went to school at 2 years old to 15 years old. It was horrible I was very dépressif and spend a lot of Time playing video games and watching anime people bullied me for no reasons except they knew I would not défend myself

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, I have been mistreated by both males and females in my life but luckily for me the males than picked on me were not physically attractive to me so them not liking me didn’t really upset me.
As for the females that picked on me I just kept my distance from them and what I am trying to do now is live a happy and successful life. I have always agreed with the saying happiness is the best revenge.

FreyaRed · Answer

Some kids tried, especially as I changed country where I lived and my language skill wasn't 100% dialect free, but they noticed soon I'm not their customer.

Anonymous · Answer

Guy in my job likes to can me by my surname

He does it to all his buddies

Then I noticed others copying him

I let them all knowi didn't like it

The others stopped but he continues

I don't care and I think that's the best attitude

Anonymous · Answer

I had sex with her father and her boyfriend, broke up her parents marraige. I may have gone to far looking for revenge

Jen_oic · Answer

@rapfan107  Yes, but not by other girls

Anonymous · Answer

yeah pretty much all through my school time. i didn't "handle" it. i just endured it cause there was nothing else to do and that's about it.

TonyMetal___86 · Answer

They tried once when i was at school and they have regreted it, they wouldn't dare to bully me again!

Tomislav7 · Answer

Yeah since 2016. I addressed it and it only got worse so I tuned it out

Mastergirl · Answer

Yes you can't let it take you down

jazzy34 · Answer

Nope.

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