Do you feel like the disconnect between men and women nowadays is massive?

With the internet, smartphones, and social media, women have such immediate access to near endless options, especially if they’re conventionally attractive.

Men do not get even close to the same privileges in this regard, only if they’re maybe like top 5 to 10% and even that’s pushing it. I believe men’s issues are very nuanced in these terms because simply, the men that women choose is often not logical whatsoever. They will decide to spend their time with a guy that looks like a weasel in a tattered leather jacket that deals drugs over a put-together and well-to-do man, a lot of the time. The way that they weigh the quality of the men in front of them is highly suspect and distorted from any measurable outcome or solution to the problem.

So my point being, women have such an abundance mindset and mentality when dealing with men. Coupled with tik tok brain, if she is not feeling entertained by man in a given moment, she will seek validation from another man that is able and willing.

It’s just such ann unfair deal for us guys. For so many men it feels impossible to find a good woman now, because they are all living in this abundance of choice and chasing Chad or I don't know, fricken Damien the drug dealer or something. Not even trying to complain, just pointing out the fact of the matter. What are y’all’s thoughts?

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And now that the site has suggested the category as society and politics , that brings up another point. Men and women do not seem to agree on anything anymore politically. Women want pro choice so they can roam around without consequence, entertaining all of this abundance , and men just want to lock down a good woman and support a family. It’s truly a rough time we are living in.
Do you feel like the disconnect between men and women nowadays is massive?
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