Why do rejected men label women as greedy or money-obsessed?

Question

When I don't want a man or when I break up with one, they treat me like I'm either an escort or greedy, but if you don't want a man, you don't want him, but you know what the problem is? The problem is that they hate being rejected, so they blame the girl, saying, "You're the problem, that's why you don't want me," that's what they do. In a place where many women are subjected to violence and murdered, a woman's priority cannot be money; people can be strange and psychopathic. I'm afraid of being in a relationship now.

OneViewpoint · Accepted Answer

Because (some) rejected men are man babies. They never matured into healthy adult personalities. They are insecure, thin skinned, and ready to blame anyone but themselves for their rejection. They lack empathy for the woman and her right to choose or recognition that there may be things going on in her life they have zero awareness of. If these guys are hitting their late 20's or early 30's and haven't reached emotional maturity, they probably never will. Mommy told them they are the handsomest bestest boy ever. Reality is hard for them to cope with.

And don't think for a moment that the female side of the equation doesn't have the same problem personalities. Little Barbie is out there believing she is a princess because daddy told her so. She believes she's gonna have it all, Chad, a mansion, a private jet, a Bentley, trips to Tahiti, 2.7 perfect children, designer clothes, and unlimited shoes / clothes.

ohsheeT · Accepted Answer

To be honest I really think there's a lot of men out there probably women too that have a lot of mental issues

Friends of mine that are girls I tell them If they're in a restaurant watch how he treats the wait If you're around him and he's talking to one of his friends And he's talking crap about his friends He's going to do the same thing to you whatever you see him doing that is negative with other people if it comes time to break up he's going to do it 10 times worse to you no matter what it is so pay attention you have to pay attention at all times learn how to read guys they will tell you everything all you have to do is pay attention

Ez-Bri-Z_v2 · Accepted Answer

People who are rejected for one reason or another often lash out with false accusations to try and hurt the other so that they both feel pain. It's a childish behavior that they never grew out of. Often with these childish men they either refer to us as cheaters or whores, or they call us gold diggers. The ones not in a relationship who say the same about women are often incels who just hate women in general because they can't get laid.

It's best just to ignore the behavior and not let it get to you. There are good people out there who would be happy to be in a relationship with you, so don't be afraid to take a chance.

RedScarlet1990 · Accepted Answer

If you're afraid don't be looking for a relationship right now, have some you time! I think when relationships don't work out both sides can get emotional, its easy to throw words around. Have a think on what you really want. Casual dating isn't that deep to be called greedy etc, we move on from it with dignity. If you're looking for a long term relationship, focus on what you can bring to that too. Everyone hates rejection but its how we become more resilience and grow. Stay true to what you want in a relationship.

DragonDan444 · Answer

This is how bitter angry people work you also see women who get rejected by men who absolutely hate men. But not everyone of these people is outright rejected many of these people have been in genuinely toxic relationships and they just project that onto everyone now even people who aren’t that way.

It’s not worth the mental energy to try to change these people. If nobody of the opposite sex wants you including decent people maybe it’s not billions of other women (or men) who are the issue. Maybe it’s them…. If the only people willing to be with them suck or they constantly choose bad partners.

loveslongnails · Answer

When rejection is the trigger for lashing out, it means you're dealing with an insecure, fearful person who doesn't understand what's happening in the real world. That person will gaslight you in any way they can to make you sound evil, or greedy or whorish.

Don't be afraid to stand your ground, but don't get upset either. If someone starts railing at you that "you're the problem", just smile and say " Listen, no one is the problem here, we're just not a good match". Or you could say " you're not a good match for me, and I'm not a good one for you. Neither of us are losers, we're just not right for each other".

Leave it at that, don't argue. If he persists, as your leaving just say " There's someone who's right for you, and right for me, and the fun is finding that person. Go have some fun... oh, and grow the fuck up!!" LOL

Zack-Bann · Answer

When I reject women I often get similar outbursts:
They call me immature or childish
Fat phobic
Even some say I MUST be gay

Because it’s easier than accepting they got rejected by a perfectly normal person who will inevitably date someone else they might be similar with

The idea being “if I’m your type then why not me”

Except attraction is a little bit more complex than that

strateguy632 · Answer

Because he got rejected AFTER she asked his salary.

A lady asked me "do you have money". I said "nope lets meet for coffee."

She rejected me then. So i am exactly your question. "rejected men label women as greedy or money-obsessed".

Anonymous · Answer

Well it's easy because women don't give anyone a chance to prove.
Rejected men are not only rejected by one girl they have been getting rejected by job, money, love, family and quite frankly everyone.
I don't know how women deemes someone worthy, the main criteria are money, looks and confidence (arrogance)
Women are naturally attracted to arrogance and toxic nature because that is exciting enough.
Women will never choose someone for the hardwork, ability to provide a basic life and love.
Some women are good.
But most of them are going never going to give a good man any chance.

SeekerOfTruth007 · Answer

How about because without fail, the number one reason women reject men is because they don't make enough money, and they've even told me that.

If a woman makes 30k per year, she thinks she's entitled to a man who makes 100k per year. If she makes 100k per year, she thinks she's entitled to marry a millionaire, and if she's already a millionaire, she thinks she deserves a billionaire.

Ariesman81Nshiiit · Answer

Says the chick that posts she's uncomfortable and can't afford A/C. Calling out men who can help.

So, you're either looking for someone with money. Looking to reject men. Or just want your ego fed. Based on the previous post I'd say you're looking to have your ego fed. You're just dishonest about it, which is why men choose to kill it.

Hope this helps. I know it's logic but I'm sure you can manage.

RavVid · Answer

It could be because women are saying they want a man with a unrealistic amount of income :- 200K, 500K, 1000K. I think the word delusional is used more often than greedy.

MrChinaski · Answer

I've never heard that one... among the thousand things I have heard men say about women.

Anonymous · Answer

Generally men don't just ask women out. Typically the woman has done something to incur that. And nobody likes being used.

I've been around long enough generally i see the game coming. But i do feel for the young bucks. This why so many young fellas are just opting out now-a-days. And you really can't blame them. But some women do. And then she gets mad about that.🤷‍♂️😆 they can't win.

lightbulb27 · Answer

Their sperm have no chance at future life. Her crotch is off limits due to their lack of competitiveness

jahaims · Answer

People who can't deal with rejection cope in unhealthy ways

audean57 · Answer

Because some men are pathetic and hate being rejected... lol

Kvass · Answer

Easier for the poor thing than accepting he can't impress a woman... boohoo😂😂

FreyaRed · Answer

Because "it can't be him, it must be something else"

kinks1951 · Answer

exactly, they do not want to look inside for a problem

chechememe95 · Answer

Because they are alone and it can’t be his fault. Never is with people like that.

canamlusciouslad73 · Answer

Too many are, though lots of lads are a**holes.

Anonymous · Answer

Your priority isn't money? Try standing 8 hrs a day with swollen feet and back pain at your Job while heavily pregnant

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Thats because they are immature and can't handle rejection. They have figured out that rejection is a part of life.

Anonymous · Answer

People often do that makes no sense to me.

Factual_person · Answer

Cause often they are

Dargil · Answer

Because they are good truth detectors.

MasterKS · Answer

Ego hurt.

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