Why is this older woman showing me so much empathy and kindness?

[scott04sa22]

There was this Mature Woman around her 50s who lives in my apartment complex. She was giving me lots of empathy when i told her my current life circumstances and life difficulties and she's given me lots of empathy then giving me chaotic dramas that I'm used too getting from people. She showed me her kindness. I told her my loneliness and she never backed away or just laughed their asses off then walked away like other people would. She was really nice.

[RavVid]

I think you are just seeing over the age divide of women. I've seen this a few times. Older women are just being as they always were and don't hate men as 20s women. Stroke a light, they even quite like men.

In the last couple of years, I've met two women who confessed they were separated/divorced. It was quite clearly a humiliating circumstance for them because in their world you stayed married.

More recently I had an 80 yo flirting with me. What came across was her approval of me as a man and her liking of men. Retro huh?

I'm guessing what is happening is that these older women actually like men and because they are older can convey liking for men.

[fishbone77]

Women are generally empathetic.

[Abbycado]

She is an empathetic person and perhaps understands your struggles. That’s a good thing to have.

[Abbycado]

Ty you for the mho!

[Iron_Man]

Because she’s 50 years old and she wants a young buck but do you really want to settle for 50 year-old

[scott04sa22]

She didn't sound like she was looking for bones to jump on and not all women go out and look for bones to jump on

[Iron_Man]

No, but they talk in a different way then eventually it comes up They are intelligent creatures. They’re not gonna give themselves away.

[loveslongnails]

She's a good person, and she probably wants some company too.