Guys, Do you feel that the potential negative and social consequences of trying to interact with women make it pretty much not worth doing?

[Anonymous]

Every man knows that interacting with women is a risky business these days. At best, you may get ignored or mocked. At worst, you might get sued or have false accusations made against you, or face other dire consequences by doing this. Is it really worth it?

[Anonymous]

I'll give you my experience. Every woman i've asked asked out over the years has said no. Not half, not 75%, every single one. But every woman that has asked ME out, my success rate has been 100% with the ones I said yes to.

So i think the answer to this question is pretty clear. If she's truly interested in you she WILL ask you out. There's no NEED to ask any woman out. Now if you just WANT TO that's up to you. But i'd say there is no need to.👍

[Asker]

I understand. The problem is that women often feel that it's beneath them to ask men out, even if doing so would be in their best interests. That means that a woman who's interested in you might not ask you out simply because it also makes her feel uncomfortable to do so. I'm not sure how to work around that. That being said, I agree with you. Every woman who's ever asked me out has had a 100% success rate when I said yes to them.

[Opinion Owner]

You're right. But if those women want to risk nothing, they get nothing. Unfortunately much more women are going to just lead you on rather than drop hints for actual interest. This is why i said it's up to you if you want to ask women out. As i said, in my experience it's a fruitless endeavor. Have i lost some potential relationships because i didn't ask more women out? Or did those women lose a relationship with me because they were unwilling to put any real effort forth? Either way i'm ok with it man. As i said, enough women approach me to sayisfy me. It's personal choice every guy has to make i guess. Also, i think at my age women are a lot less hung up about these silly little gender roles. In short, they'd rather put themselves out there than remain single i guess. The ones that don't, they can jusr deal with a smaller pool. Everyone's happy.👍

[Asker]

I don't necessarily have a lot of women asking me out, but the ones who have done that, with one exception, have been fairly reasonable human beings. I guess there's a filter in place that I'm grateful for.

[Asker]

Yes enough

[Taranis_Thunor]

It's absolutely not worth doing from an emotional point of view, but if you don't put up with their BS you're gonna die without children. That isn't survival. Survival is living to pass down your genetics.

[Asker]

Actually it's not worth doing from a financial or a legal point of view. If you want to pass on your genetics so badly go be a sperm donor. In some places you can actually get paid for it, which is more than you'll get from a woman.

[Taranis_Thunor]

Yeah women are bad and the sperm donation idea isn't a bad one but it'd be weird thinking I have children out there I never met.

[Asker]

If you get involved with a woman who will wind up having children that you can first see briefly and yet you get to pay for for many years and never see. Which do you think is worse?

[Taranis_Thunor]

The vampiric nature of women is thanks to feminism turning the west into a matriarchy that strikes their ego constantly. It's disgusting.
Life will continue to have no meaning without a family though. But the solution isn't just "be better", women need to be held way more accountable than they are perhaps.
If they were punished for some things worse then men that'd be fair since we're punished worse for everything.

[Taranis_Thunor]

Infidelity is a good law to bring back that was historically always used to persecute women more then men 🎊🎉

[Asker]

I don't think talking about the cause is nearly as important as figuring out what to do about the problem, and there is no easy solution. None of the simp men will allow you to reenact the infidelity law.

[Asker]

Well no not really but infidelity law strikes me is maybe a decent idea

[OneViewpoint]

Nope. The women I interact with are all pretty much honest decent people who are a pleasure to be around but who have a broad range of personal traits and interests, but no serious red flags.

• I refuse to let my brain be poisoned by internet bullshit published by "influencers" trolling for clicks.
• I actively curate the people (male and female) I allow in my social circle and who have access to my time and personal information. It saves a lot of drama and trauma, LOL.
• I'm not looking for female friends or relationships on Only Fans, in Strip Clubs, in Night Clubs, or on dating apps. Probably 90% of the women I interact with on a regular basis are introductions through friend groups where we are both vetted by multiple other people from the outset. I highly recommend it.
• I feel neither exposed nor at risk from bad players in the dating world. I have teams of people screening women for me. Is it perfect? No. Is it better than the alternatives? Hell yes!
• I'm not totally restricted to introductions from friend groups. I will step outside my normal behavior in the right circumstances. I get approached a lot by women. And I'm fairly good at reading people. The other women in my friend groups are fucking brutal at screening out new women who aren't "a fit" for the group dynamic. That weighs heavily in my own decision making.
• This stuff is not hard. Why do so many men seem to struggle with basic social interaction? Has the internet really weakened this many men this much?

[Asker]

It's all good, but you have to take a ton of precautions, correct?

[gasman70]

the whole system is weird, women actually have the power in todays society yet the men are expected to do everything. Take all the risks, spend the money on her, and make sure that she's taken care of, to the point of almost being a mind reader. If women would just be straight forward, this whole problem would go away. Women just play games, throwing out subtle clues, maybe, to show, maybe, that they are interested, possibly. If you read it wrong, then you'll be fired for sexual harassment, because most of the time, you'll find a woman at work, unless you found them in college, where you're both drunk but the woman still has the power in both situations. Almost every time, if you aren't attractive, the same action is seen as creepy and rapey, as the same guy who is seen as attractive will be seen as sexy and complimentary. That's how its the power in the woman's corner.

[Lesbologist]

There is a shit load of dudes out there that have come to that conclusion. Depends though... if you're options pretty much will do nothing but sacrifice your peace and wealth just for some plunge here and there, I'm not going to judge a dude for just opting out of that mess.

[RavVid]

It is not that bad but I interacted a lot more in the past than I do know. I was more inclined to chat with girls, not necessarily with sexual intent but more for the interaction.

Far more likely to limit that to those I am already acquainted to.

[lightbulb27]

I did at one time. when you no longer care, it opens up a world of possibilities to just be genuine, which they seem to appreciate sometimes. The more authentic you that you are, the better it is.

Yes, you are going to get slammed by females, and they have their reasons. you can't win them all. welcome to the world of selection.

[Anonymous]

i suppose there is a lot of negative consequences or at least potential , don't know if its something i'd really allow for me to not try and meet a certain girl if i really wanted to.

it can be hard to determine if a girl is worth it or not until you get to know them

[DryGermanGuy]

No, not at all a typical problem.

[Asker]

That's probably because you live in Germany, and apparently there's not the same problem that we have here, where people automatically assume that the man is at fault and the woman is telling the truth.

[DonaldDarko]

Pretty much.

[MrChinaski]

Nope.

[MrChinaski]

If you are tired of women you are tired of life.

[Taranis_Thunor]

That's me.

[In_Trance]

Never