Would you marry your parent?

[Monica67]

They say you marry your parent—someone who’s similar to your parent.

[Laws-Of-Existence]

Hmmmm. Someone spending most life either working, or home keeping, or watching films, or going to church, or studying? Nah.

I cannot even imagine a woman i met in real life whom i would like to spend 7 days with. Let alone 70 years. I'm sure it's a problem about me and not our human species, though. I try to use theories about biology to guide my thought of relationships. Maybe injecting oxytocin is the way. Since raising kiddies (the natural way oxytocin is supposed to flood us) is not an option... not an option, just because. The only thing drawing opposite genders together is beating genitals. You realize that people who put 100% of their energy into sex appeal aren't good at pair bonding.

Or maybe I'm just retarded due to my childhood. Having a greedy tyrant parent, regarded by others as a "sadist", then schools went really heavy with equality. As a result i have an obsession with choice. I am disgusted by making someone dependent on me, thus, even a semi-pimp scenario where a hoe is loyal to me just because i make money (probably one of the most popular relationship arrangements that last for a long time) doesn't sit with me. It has to be a choice. But if we do not multiply then there aren't nearly as many hormones gluing us.

So again. Whom would i marry? The total opposite of my parent, and i want to be the total opposite of my other parent. Probably inject a lot of oxytocin. And other bodybuilding shit, because having pairbonded is known to make people "let go of themselves". Studies on animals show that it increases cooperation with partners while also making them more hostile towards strangers of opposite gender. I'm paranoid about all or nothing sort of shit. If i cannot pair bond permanently with 0 cheating and 0 letting go of myself and 0 losing interest in her, i don't want any of it. ㅤ

[tiredpanda]

Nope

[LazerBean]

Goofy ahh question

[FrodoSkywalker007]

Nooooooo 🤮

[lilBigPotato]

Um no.

[KostasKouvalis]

Gross