If it's a matter of girlfriend/boyfriend, then no need for parents blessings.
But for marriage, that's not child's play. Parents are wise, especially in this matter. That's why I value there opinion.
A possible solution for this, is to introduce your gf/bf to your parents before it gets to serious.
That is, if your partner don't freak out.
Open to discussion.
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For me personally, I'll drop a relationship if she needs her parents validation. I'm dating her not her parents. If you need someone's approval on how to live your life, in my eyes you shouldn't be in a relationship.
If my parents really love me they will support me unconditionally.
They migh have made me but they do not own me.
If A and B are both important to me and A tells me I have to pick then A is the one I will not pick, because if they value you they would not put you in that situation.
This is why lots of people eventually choose to marry a sibling: No in-laws. Parents may discourage it at first but they eventually get on board.
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Yes i would marry him regardless. Because, it is my life. I get to chose who i would want to spend it with. If i believe he's worth it, i would do it. My parents will come around and accept him sooner or later.
I will not marry without their blessings, i will try to change their point of view. but it is my opinion because i know my parent only want happiness for me , they will deny only when my choice is wrong.
If my parents dont approve of a guy, they have a good reason. My dad not approving of the guys I've liked has saved me from horrible relationships before, so I would trust his judgement.
Yes I could. Of course I would hear what they have to say about the person... maybe they are seeing something I'm missing. But if it's something dumb like "he's too tan", or "he is ugly for you" or stuff like that... I dont really care.
nah my dad doesn’t discriminate like that. Only time he’d “disapprove” is if he doesn’t like the guy as a person
Major rule in relationships. Cherish the similarities. Respect the differences. It come down to your choice. Its your life
I'd try to conciliate my family and the person I love. I'd like to have a healthy long term relationship with my parents and my significant other.
If I loved her, because my parents’ opinion is irrelevant to my feelings (just as they’d say about me too)
My dad would I don't expect anyone to live up to my mom's expectations.
why the fuck would I need my parents blessing when it's my marriage to her. her parents blessing that's an entirely different story that shit matters a lot
Once your grown you don't need your parents approval to do a damn thing and if you do
Than clearly you are not grown
if my gal is halfway decent... my parents will see that
Because sooner or later they will die in the future so you will live with your husband not your parents
No unless I agree with the Reason once it's brought to my attention.
Nope my mom is very important to me.
Yes I would. It's my life, not theirs.
Only if she worth it
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