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in my native land Dominican Republic people value friendship and romance more than anything in life. unlike Americans who value career, earnings and status more than anything.
this pretty much made it hard for me when I was a teenager during my incel days because every time I visited my family down there they would pressure me to get a girlfriend already.
however every time I used to show interest on women that were already in multiple relationships in the past they would give me the instant...
"dont even think about it!"
hammer. they claimed that an inexperienced dude like me should not get with a woman who already has experience in the relationships and dating world because supposedly they were to "overwhelming" for dudes like me.
ironically I met my first girlfriend at the time during these days and she was far more experienced than I was. she was just bailing out of a toxic relationship when we met yet when we dated and smooch I really do not remember her being a challenge.
since then I been wondering, what exactly is so challenging about being with a woman who has more dating and relationship experiences than you? I thought we were all humans? I didn't knew relationships were equivalent to employment.
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Punk,
You seem like a good guy but you're a bit naive. No woman in America can use and abuse you unless you allow it to happen. Do you allow it to happen?
Like I said, you seem like good guy so what I'm about to say isn't about you. I like watching Simps going to a bar, empty their wallets and see the women laughing at them for being so stupid.
Guys need to be beamming with confidence and shed all fear of women. And of course, don't take bullshit from any of them.
fuck no brother!
I dont spend shit on these thots, I rather pay a real prostitute because at least i get what I pay for at 110% rate.
I meant no disrespect and I wasn't even talking about you. And I agree that I have more respect for hookers than I do these dumb THOTs that think they're all that and a bag of potato chips.
My message to guys is to stop being afraid of women because there's nothing they have that would warrant that false, manufactured fear.
none taken, I actually knew the message behind your speech.
I pity these simps who pedestalize bimbos with their naive self righteous egos.
I read a fascinating anthropological study about why women hold all the cards or at least think they do in the sex department.
400,000 years ago, cave women only put out when they were in heat.
So when a dragon rolled into the village to find a woman to eat, they didn't dare touch the woman putting out to the 50 caveman surrounding her for the gangbang. The cavemen would have ripped the dragon's head off and shut down its neck.
So over the centuries women figured out that sex meant security, and life or death.
There obviously wasn't any money back then but they were still exchanging sex for security which makes it the world's oldest profession.
And how this strange phenomena has lasted until present time is beyond me. Guys are still trading something for sex.
Why? Because they are dumbass losers.
exactly. hypergamy has always existed. that is why you can't believe dudes who swear they dont pay for pussy
All guys are paying in one form or another, that's why guys should go on vacations to the Dominican or Thailand.
https://youtu.be/Y3htpr5_QQ4?is=vHdoYqPiJGP0sLVX
When I was in Thailand you could rent a girlfriend for 24 hours for $40.
How far will that get you at McDonald's in America?
damn bro, I hate you!
visiting Thailand has been on my bucket list for quite a while now. I also heard that you can have a threesome with those bimbos with a little more than that. Colombia is a nice spot too, is too bad that its pretty dangerous
What are you waiting for? Book a cheap flight.
I can walk you through the process and where to stay and eat!
I got a lot of shit going on in my life right now that the only way I can book a flight there is if I win the lotto
I understand. When I was in Thailand I met a guy who was a dishwasher from Las vegas. He never so much has talked to an American girl. He worked
as many hours as he possibly could at the casinos, saved every dime, and went to Thailand six times per year. He stayed two weeks each time. So that's 12 weeks out of the year he spent in Thailand.
So that's 84 days in Thailand. He probably swapped out girlfriends every 3 days or so so that would be a total of about 25 girlfriends per year.
I just checked out the airfare from the US to Bangkok. It's $902 for the cheapest round trip flight.
That's equivalent to saving $2.53 per day for a year to pay for the flight. 😋
And don't ever stay at hotels; they cost too much. Rent an apartment for a month or just stay in bed and breakfasts.
Only eat at the mall, because it's cheaper than regular restaurants and you don't dare eat Street food.
Perhaps it's this idea that a more experienced woman might be more likely to use and abuse you, manipulation and Perhaps leave you when she's done having her fun with you. And being younger well... your parents probably decided that you weren't capable at making your own choices and they had low belief in the idea that if you got hurt you'd be able to deal with it. Mine are merely assumptions...
" Perhaps leave you when she's done having her fun with you."
if it was in America I would of obviously appreciated their concern in that case cause here in America the only way a woman can have fun with you is by exploiting you for free dinner, favors and attention.
I honestly don't get what y'all are talking about when it comes to experience. Maybe it's cuz I just view it all as common sense.
Sally: What would you like for dinner, Fred?
Fred: Tacos
Sally: No, I had that yesterday, what else do you want?
Fred: Tacos
Sally: But I don't want tacos
Fred: Then next time don't ask what I want.
Sally: Fine, next time I won't ask you.
Sally didn't get her way and she's glad about that. Finally she's up against a real man and not a pussy. Fred just set himself apart from all the pussy men in the world.
What baffles me is why you guys are talking about experience. Does common sense take experience or are you just born with it?
older women know what they want and what to say to get it. young girls play hard to get and are boner killers. it can be very frustrating. and i have raised the minimum age to 23 and the max age to 23.