
Could you date someone with opposite political values if there’s chemistry?

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There are people whom i want to evaporate for committing atrocities. And i cannot be cuck enough to watch someone support them. If there is some imagined chemistry then it will be broken whilst i am hammering the truth. ㅤ
It all depends on why and IF they also could fully accept my views and ideas. First, the idea of "chemistry" in a relationship is false - it is not reality. One must LEARN how to love another person, especially in intimate, romantic, relationships. There is too much pain and suffering in this world based on "chemistry" so don't buy into it. Sure, enjoy the flutters and feelings, but ensure you are basing relationships on more substantive and weightier matters - character, maturity, and values. This is where the political views kick in. For example, a person could hold what we in the US call conservative values (e. g. marriage is only between a man and a woman, we should have a smaller federal government, people have the right to own and use guns...) BUT they could stand firmly opposed to flawed or immoral politicians such as Donald Trump. A person could hold what we in the USA call progressive views (e. g. care for the poor, take care of homeless, raise the minimum wage) but still understand that you can't spend more than you earn, or that a republican is still a human being and deserves to be treated with dignity. In reality, most of us are politically moderates anyway and simply want to enjoy life to the best of our ability.
No! There’s no chemistry in that relationship. I usually come across such overly political types in America. Back home, they don’t overwhelm girls with politics and it’s usually a discussion men have when talking to each other. An American nationalist usually irritates me because he conveniently ignores that sentiment when discussing East Asian invasion from the West coast. He also rather has East Asian fetish making him rather unattractive
No.
Not all politcal views are valid or healthy, I wouldn't date someone who has political beliefs that oppress people or even be just friends with him. I'd probably walk away from our date without even saying bye.
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No.
It would mean they werefaithless atheist who is a feminist they rampantly promote abortion and for women to be promiscous and to add to the 2.5 billion abortions, she probably had tattoos, sleeps around, curses like a sailor, hates the country, want taxes raised and to let in millions and millions of foreigners.
No thanks.
Nope, because its hard enough to deal with people who want to push me to get politically involved and vote. Or those that want to insert politics into any conversation we might be having. It might have been possible to make it work years ago but with hyper political people can be on both sides of the isle these days I would half expect a never ending political conversation or a straight lecture on political and social issues. So I would quickly look for the closest exit even if its only a few min into a first date.
Trump has become synonymous with the Republican Party... until last week. LOL Now, they're scouring about for an identity. I can save a lot of time; whatever they come up with will be bullshit. So, if a woman is dead set on identifying as Republican, we will not get along. On the other hand, if you're die hard Democratic, I probably won't like you either simply because you're on the other extreme.
I'm interested in what you practice, how you live, what you think as demonstrated by your actions, not how you label it.
There shouldn't be chemistry if the political values were opposed.
That said, there are exceptions including a famous one: James Carville and Mary Matalin. They were the each part of the 1992 presidential campaign management teams for Bill Clinton and George HW Bush respectively. A year after the 1992 campaign ended, they married on Thanksgiving 1993.
My wife and I are generally on the same page. If I were single though, I would try to find a woman who largely agreed with me on key issues. My intent would be to pursue marriage and have children. I have views and values I'd want to pass on to the children and raise them with. That's more important.
It depends on the topics and how far apart and how important those are to him. We don't need to be 100% aligned on everything, but we should share the same overall values and goal. How to reach that, there can be differences.
That depends on what those values are. Trump supporters seem to be lacking in that department, for example, with their pedophile, sexual abuse protector attitudes.
If we at least agree on some things politically. If we're completely opposite, unless they don't care that much and never talk about it, it would be very difficult.
I did a decade ago. I never bothered to tell her mine and she never asked. She just assumed we were on the same political page. Besides, we'd been close friends for nearly 4 decades.
No chance because a lot of modern politics have to do with morals and moral incompatibility ruins a relationship.
@HighValue
Nothing modern about the association between morals and politics. Women being more political is somewhat new though. Kind of a double edged sword in my opinion. Though it does help weed out the morally bankrupt ones.
Not possible now. Girls have swung to the Left whilst men have drifted to the right. It is never the twain shall meet now.
no, sooner or later I would have to dump her anyway. Our country is just too fractured and there is no goingn back.
Not at all, I do not find snowflake at all attractive.
@LazerBean
Fuckin' get em girl
Good people are good because of what they do, not because of what stripe they wear.
Nitro and glycerine have chemistry. I wouldn't go near them either.
I don't have a problem because politics isn't something that i give too much importance about!
Mature adults should be able to handle not having the same opinion on everything
if she’s not hard-core and set in her ways, I can teach her
Not really. I have very little, or in some cases no, respect for anybody who supports Trump.
No, I don't date and don't keep politically opposed friends
No, and I wouldn't want to.
If a Trumpster had big boobs? Well...
There's no chemistry if she follows politics
Probably not
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