Question for gold-diggers, what signs do you look for to see if a man has money or not?

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other than obvious signs like him driving an expensive car or wearing a Rolex

missnicole · Accepted Answer

The more money a man spends on himself (car, jewelry, house, etc) the less money he has to spend on a woman...

Im not a gold digger (actually, I make a point to stay away from wealthy men for personal reasons...) but of the wealthy men I've come across...

They lived and dressed moderately

They were not flashy, especially if they are independently wealthy. They worked too hard for thier money to spend it loosely and throw it away.

They have certain standards as far as cleanliness, places theyd eat etc.

They work...a lot...and generally don't even have the time for a woman moreless be off on trips and shopping sprees and nights out on the town.

They would be the first to flip out on how much something costs..unless it was something I wanted.

I wouldn't even know that men were wealthy until Id been with them for awhile, they are incredibly low key...which would irk me cause of my whole stay away from men with money thing.

People who suddenly come into money and flash it around look great and spoil mercilessly... But once its gone..its gone. Hence..the difference between wealthy guys and rich guys. Golddiggers like rich guys cause they will spend fast and hard..but won't stay with this type (if they are smart) cause these guys won't have anything left long term or have a mass amount of debt/ credit card bills to cover. Wealthy guys don't have that problem.

the-love-guru · Accepted Answer

A Rolex doesn't necessarily mean he is rich, it could simply mean he has a very high limit on his credit card.

To find out a man's real wealth, look at his skin, hair, teeth, and nails. Shoes as well. You can tell a lot about someone just by their shoes. A classy, wealthy man will be more likely to take incredible care of himself. Clothes, cars, and even homes can be purchased with borrowed money (I know people that are poor, but have incredibly nice vehicles), but a man that takes care of the little details means that he's more likely to have money.

By the way, I'm in no way a gold digger, I was just interested in this question :)

C-L-E · Accepted Answer

I agree with the love guru down there, but also, I would look at who a man associates with.  Powerful men associate with other powerful men, and powerful men are generally rich.  Also, the types of places a man likes to go.  Does the guy like to frequent the local bar and applebees, or is he an esteemed member of some kind of club?  The way a man acts can also be an indicator.  I would say that in general any rich man worth a girl's time cares at least a bit about what people think of him-in that he will have proper manners and his behavior will be appropriate for whatever event or function he is at.

metaldave20 · Accepted Answer

religion plays a part, I'm jewish, I'm relatively rich, I'm not gold diggers digging rich, but yeah, my parents are wealthy, and I work, on top of having had a bar mitzvah which got me 2000, 6 years ago, most of its gone though, as I was on a spending binge (yeah, I was a girl there for a long time)

xxangel1990xx · Answer

The job he has,

The house he lives in,

If he has any expensive looking jewellery (it could just be fake though),

How he dresses,

How he acts-if he speaks broad, acts like a bit of a lad, gets drunk, makes sexual remarks to passing girls etc then I wouldn't think he's rich.

(im not a golddigger btw), just thought id add that lol.

redheadbabygirl · Answer

there are a number of indicators of money/good breeding that I look for (if I'm looking at all); I'll list a few.

1. Dresses nicely (obvious)

2. Wears some form of cologne.

3. Wears a ring

4. Has styled hair

5. Speaks in a refined way

6. Is a good conversationalist (obviously there are exceptions, but in most cases...)

7. Is precise about timing

8. Notices the little details

9. Isn't tight with money

10. has good manners

Anonymous · Answer

his job (doctor, lawyer, etc)

what he owns (business, homes, cars, etc)

how he dresses (expensive clothes)

who his social circle is (other rich guys)

he either is or isn't. and if he isn't, it shows.

signs he's "not" rich?

he talks about how much money he has

he talks about what he has

he tries to show off what little he does have and make it out to be more than it is

CougarGirl · Answer

I am not a gold digger but I do know that people can and do fake having money. The fancy car he is driving could be a rental or his mom's. The Rolex could be a Folex.  He could have a nice house that is in foreclosure. He could have nice clothes and spend money like crazy and have no job. Then you have to decide do you care where his money is coming from,  because it might not be legal.

Simple-Simonette · Answer

In my experiences - sugar daddies seek out the gold diggers and flaunt their wealth.

scarletrosebud333 · Answer

It's just about the manner in which they carry themselves.  A rich man knows it and doesn't care what other people think because money is an option to them so they can probably get anything they want.

Anonymous · Answer

What kind of job is he in or what his profession is.

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