Met a girl once, weird to add her on Facebook?

[itsweird182]

So about 6 months ago I met this girl at school through a friend. We talked for almost an hour, had a really good time. We just graduated yesterday, and I haven't talked to her since. I found her on Facebook and was going to add her, but would that be weird? I figure it would be only chance to talk to her again. Should I do it? Any advice on what to say if she accepts?

Thanks!

[greendot641]

I say go for it. I usually add people I find interesting on Facebook even if I've only met them once. What could possibly be the downside if you won't ever talk to her again otherwise? Go for it. If she accepts, just ask her how she's been, what she plans to do now, if she has a job...anything really.

[itsweird182]

Thanks for the answer. I'm gonna add her, it's been a while since I talked to her but I'm sure she'll remember the conversation we had. Thanks again!

[greendot641]

Good to hear! yeah, no problem :)

[itsweird182]

She accepted! now I gotta figure out what to say exactly...lol

[greendot641]

Just ask her about life, not to questioning though. Ask,like I said before ^^^^, her plans and other random stuff. Just relax :)

[itsweird182]

Sent her the message on Sunday but never got a response :( weird she would accept my friend invite then not respond to me. Oh well, at least I tried!

[greendot641]

She might be busy or not seen it yet. Just wait. Yes! At least you tried! Good job! :D

[katg4560]

Just go for it. The worst that can happen is she doesn't accept your friend request. If she asks if she knows you just say how you think you met her through blank and had a nice chat about blank. It's not weird to add someone you know

[itsweird182]

Thanks. Reason for asking the question was its been 6 months since I talked to her. I waited til now because I didn't want to add her then bump into her on campus, that'd be kinda awkward! But I'm definitely gonna add her after after reading yours and everyone else's responses.

[katg4560]

Ok let us know how things turn out. Glad I could help.

[americanclassic]

I say go for it. You never know what will happen.

And IF she accepts give it a couple days, and just say what's up?

[itsweird182]

Thanks, I'm definitely gonna try it.

[Storedwit]

Go for it - you have nothing to lose by trying, and more the gain.

Worst case scenario, she can say "no", and then you're back to where you are now.

[bookmarks]

its not weird but your name says its weird... weird, eh?

[XRabbitHeartX]

Nothing wrong with it. It really is a opportunity and you should take it. When she accepts you can send her a message saying thanks for accepting the request and asking how she's doing. When you catch her on chat then don't by shy to also say hello. Sometimes being obvious is not all that bad. Just don't keep sending her messages when she hasn't even replied to the first one yet.

[Prof_Don]

I don't think so.

I truly believe that adding her on Facebook will flatter her by showing her that you actually remember her enough to add her.

[Amelie88]

Definitely add her! Ask her how she's been and what she's been up to. She'll take it from there ;)

[Yeahhbro]

yeah man its kind if weird but f*** it if you don't try you will never get an answer

[Anonymous]

Don't I hate when guys do that to me. I never accept them.

[larry69]

Let her add you, but maybe so in the case of graduation!