Fake Facebook account to spy on boyfriend?

[Anonymous]

OK I know this is wrong but I had to do it. I made a fake account, with a girls picture that I found on a blog. It's not an attractive girl and all you can see is her face, nothing sexual about it. Also made her hometown far away like across the country. So I added my boyfriend using this fake account, and he inboxes me/her. Is this basically like trapping him. It's not like throwing an amazingly hot girl at him and Inboxing him as if I was her. I just sent a friend request. Does he really care for me if he can easily just talk to any girl on Facebook and not feel guilty about it. I'm 17 and maybe this is immature but I needed to know if I should put my all into this relationship, knowing that he doesn't really care about us and is is willing to talk to any girl. It baffles me that he was the one that asked to be in a relationship but is quick to hit other girls up.

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+1 y

Ok this is my first relationship so yeah I have a lot to learn

[madhatters4]

really bad. you should hope your boyfriend can develop non-sexual relationships with girls. Otherwise if he can't then you really have something to be worried about.

Problem is that you clearly have boundary and trust issues. You've got to fix these issues before you can be in a relationship. Learn to trust and if you can't it means either you really need some help in this area or the guys you with are giving you cause for mistrust.

it doesn't sound like your boyfriend is giving you a legit reason to be mistrust him so my advice is to close the fake account ASAP. If I find out my girlfriend did this there is no way in hell I'd stick around. So if you like him kill this fake person immediately

[martyfellow]

Maybe your feel guilty, but it's really fun to do this, right?

Don't be too tough on him; it's normal fro him to like attractive girls who contact him. Do you really think he's nol ever going to look at other girls?

Even if he really likes you...that's a little unrealistic.

It's best you disillusion yourself!

[angel1142]

If yous ay "he doesn't really care" then you knew even before you created the fake account. So why did you do it?

Then let the guy breathe...he is talking, not even flirting... It's OK to talk to people from the opposite gender even if you're in a relationship!

Delete this account and give him a real chance.

[Prettygurl12]

I see nothing strange about his contacting her. He probably wanted to know how she knew him or why she added him. You making a fake account to spy on him though...if I were him and found out about it, I'd dump you. :P

You're just nuts and obviously too immature to be in a relationship.

[Asker]

Well I don't think I'm nuts. All I did was add him, didn't make conversation or anything. But I would agree that I'm being immature.

[Prettygurl12]

Well, you already have him as a friend on your own account, don't you?

[Asker]

I deactivated the account, I didn't have it for long I just wanted to see what he would do. Like I stated not long ago, this is my first relationship and I have a lot to learn.

[Anonymous]

Why are you insecure about him and your relationship with him? Do you not trust him for a reason?

[sexyasianboi26]

The fake girl is you and you and you and you. The way you talk to your boyfriend is somewhat the way you will talk to your boyfriend with your fake account.

In a nutshell, this is insanity and you are driving your relationship off a cliff

[Asker]

I never said I messaged him back... I never responded to his inbox

[ryanontario]

its been done before , fake accounts have been around since the day Facebook became popular , its really nothing new . if he really starts falling for this fake girl I'd get a little worried especially as he's not even single

[danik23]

I would suggest you to close this fake profile and do not think about that anymore!

(You don't need to tell this to your boyfriend)

Life and relationship are complicated things even without such further complications...

[Zekeandluther7]

No, not at all in a relationship there thould be trust. Talk with him

[Anonymous]

What did this guy say in the post though? Like if it was just "who are you?" Then he could be just as suspicious.