Too busy to text but not to use Facebook?

[Anonymous]

My girlfriend says she is too busy to text me during the day at work but she posts on her Facebook and on her friends. I see that he is active on the Facebook chat. It bugs me she won't respond to me. She sys she loves me and knows I have a ring for her. We have talked about marriage and have plans for our life together. What do I do?

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+1 y

Just some more info, she uses her phone for work and that is how she also does her Facebook.

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+1 y

So I just had the conversation with her, She flipped out and said that I can't get a grip. She isn't going to have someone stalk her Facebook and has too many other concerns and duties as a single mom to be worried about how I feel. I know I pissed her off but I had to tell her how I felt. I just happened to see her Facebook. I wasn't stalking it. Why would she jump to such harsh accusation?

[CollinR]

Ok after this new information I would go as far as saying this probably isn't the right girl for you. Good communication is crucial for a solid relationship and it doesn't appear to be there. As hard as it may be I think it's time to move on and find someone easier to get along with who enjoys the attention not pushes you away for it.

[CollinR]

Communicate with her on Facebook when she's working, if that's how she can communicate best at work, then work with it. If it's a computer job it's much easier to sneak Facebook at work than sneak a phone, if it's Facebook from her phone you might have communication problems.

[pawla]

Say how you feel about the situation and try to find compromise together.

[pawla]

Women are emotional beings, give her some time to cope if you really want to pursue the relationship. She might have said that because she felt threatened or she was just having a bad day. You could try taking her out somewhere nice to talk about your relationship. Just find middle ground that you'll both agree on; but if it's really so problematic for you and she won't agree to anything, why bother be in a relationship? Good luck!

[Anonymous]

either contact her through Facebook, or tell her how you feel.