I haven't really had much serious relationships just because of school and work, this is the first one in years at any rate, but I've never had a guy react like this before. I've got many guy friends who I've accidentally let one go in front of, and they just laughed it off. But maybe it's different between friends and relationships? I just don't understand his reaction, especially since it seems kind of immature to me. I'm 26 and he's 29.
And things seemed like they were going really well between us. He had even set us up a Niagara Falls trip for Valentine's Day. He asked me to book off the Friday, which I did, so we can go down Thursday after my shift and we would spend Thursday to Sunday out there. It's only a two hour trip from here.
It just seems odd, but I kind of wonder if maybe he's just using it as an excuse to leave me. We seemed good that day, but maybe I did something else? He does complain I work too much. Maybe it's because of work. I just don't get it.
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