About a year and a half ago, he applied to a different job in the air force (he is in an army reserve now, working about once a week for it). I thought he was making progress, but nothing has happened and I don't think it will since Canada isn't looking to go into war anytime soon. I don't think they will be recruiting too many people for now. About a year ago, I told him that when I graduate with my bachelors and go into graduate school, I would prefer for him to be at least in training for a career. I don't think he took it too seriously as he hasn't done anything to get a career. I understand he can't do anything towards getting the career in the airforce, but he also has a diploma for police foundations. Why not use it? Get some experience, move out of his parents house, and just grow up. He's too comfortable at home it seems. I don't know what to do as my parents have also been breathing down my neck about this even though they know I can't push him to do anything. It's not my place.
So... is his little amount of ambition a deal breaker? If he doesn't get into a career by the time I graduate... should I consider breaking up with him?
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