I am working currently, but my job is not one of the ones that I can rise to an upper position. I am comfortable with this way. But people around me ask when I will find a decent job for building my career. I think I dont have the ambition for it. Is this a bad thing?
I had that feeling. For a long time, I just couldn't find that drive for a specific career path. It felt like everyone around me had their act together, you know, chasing promotions or hopping from one big opportunity to the next. And there I was, just not feeling that same pull towards any career and I was happy with the money I earn.
Life's not just about climbing some career ladder or having the most impressive title. It is a about finding a meaningful thing for yourself. For some, sure, that's tied to their job. But not for everbody. When I realized that I relieved.
I realized it's okay not to have a grand career ambition. It doesn't make you less than anyone else.
If you're feeling societal pressure to chase a career you're not passionate about, try to tune that out. That is all I can advise you.
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It is absolutely fine. You'll find people that look down on you for it, but you'll also find people that (I believe are more enlightened in regards to what matters in life) respect that you're content where you are. If you're comfortable and happy, then honestly that's the best thing. There are too many people that burn themselves out working and chasing money their whole lives. My honest opinion is they'll regret it on their deathbeds. Working too hard is literally one of the top regrets people have when they die.
It's a matter of opinion. I mean you only get one go-round in this life. And nobody brags about thier career on thier deathbed. But most people do try to work towards something.
I personally have never had a career. But I've always had a plan. I'm not rich, but I do have a net worth in the high 6 figures (better than most my peers with careers).
In short do what's right for you. And remember to smile and enjoy the ride. Because it goes by quick.
I dont think its bad. A check is a check at the end of the day. Sometimes im too afraid to go apply for what i really am interested in because i know i dont have the experience required. So i settle for a job i can tolerate that can pay me. I've noticed when dating that that bothered two of my boyfriends. They wanted me to seek a career i was passionate about as they did. They’d get so frustrated that i didn't and almost treated the situation like its a dealbreaker.
It depends on you. I personally have no ambition to rise in my position. I avoided managerial positions for 10 years before finally accepting one, and only because it's still a technical position and I don't get stuck in stupid processes. What is most important for me is my personal growth...
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It is bad but it’s also not? You can’t always help feeling lost with what you want to do. If you simply just don’t care about yourself and are lazy then yes it’s bad. If you’re just lost with what you want to do and what will make you happy, that’s understandable.
It depends on what you want out of life. A lot of people want a nice house with a swimming pool, nice vacations and drive a new car. You need to make boatloads of cash. And any job that pays really well will want a pound of flesh.
It is not. People will say it is because they are socially conditioned to do so, but it is not.
It is truly none of their business.
Please do whatever gives you moments of happiness and peace.Bad thing. For example, I am not ambitious at all. My future is in danger. My laziness prevents me from being ambitious. My God! Someone get me out of this swamp.
Nope. You gotta work to pay the bills. Do a good job. Work somewhere that you're not miserable. Life isn't about money and career growth. There's plenty of other things to have ambition for that provide personal growth.
It's only bad if you're stuck on the same place forever, no pay raise and you're struggling with bills.
Good for you. (Not being sarcastic) you don't need a career despite what the feminists tell you.
no
its fine
it means u r satisfied with what u have n comfortable
Only you know what's good for you. We aren't psychic but what I will say is you'll eventually want or needs a home if you can't afford it 🤷🏼♀️
(Shrug) I’ve several friends who seem to be dallying from retail job to job. I can say I don’t hang with them as often, but they appear happy.
If you have something to get by on and something you want to do then it's fine.
If you're happy and it provides for you financially, who cares what other people think
You have to live your life according to how you see fit. Who cares what they think, but just like curiosity what type of work do you do?
can you get a comfortable retirement there?
If you are satisfied who cares
Yes.
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