How do you know if a girl wants to grind at a club?

[Anonymous]

What I have been doing previously is just dance with the girls, make some eye contact and then start with salsa dancing and then transition to back grind. This has worked maybe 10% of the time. What are girls thinking? How can I make it more likely that girls will grind with me?

Also please no remarks about being shallow. This is simply nature.

[drjohno]

I think it's like trying to kiss a girl without watching for the green light telling me she's ready to be kissed. What you probably need to do is going for the type of girl who is more likely into dance grinding. Off the top of my head, trashy looking girls, drunk girls, tattooed girls, girls who are already grinding other dudes. Also, it would help a lot if you were hot. Statistically speaking if not all girls are into grinding, your target population will have to be those who like it; I'd expect your success rate to increase significantly.

[ladsin]

umm what I normally do is just when theyre dancing at a club or at a concert and just walk up behind them and kinda press my groin to their backside (light enough to where if they don't want to you can play it off as an accident) and when they turn around I just kinda smile if they smile back I ask you wanna dance, if they don't or get pissed I'm just like sorry girl

[Anonymous]

Make eye contact and all of that but ask her if she wants to dance.

[Anonymous]

she sticks her ass out

[Popnlock]

I think the girl will just do it... There's nothing you can do to make her wanna do it... She has to feel comfortable

[Modernhippy]

this is a good question that I do not know the answer too.

[Anonymous]

well what they are wearing. and how they move.

[yourgirl]

her look that she gives you