My boyfriend dancing with other girls

[Anonymous]

So my boyfriend and I were in a club and we were dancing. he did not like how I was dancing with him so he told me if I don't dance like he wants me to he will go dance with other girls because he spend money to get in here so he wants to get worth of the money. I said no that's not right. but he did it anyways. I slapt him after I saw him dancing sexually with girls. We broke up Because I thought it was disrespectful for him to be grinding with other girls and especially with this girl who he said he don't like but she likes him. He said "at least I was honest with you"...but that's still not right... He was drunk by the way too. next morning he texted me "sorry" and said that he was a drunk fool. and that he want to be together and talk. what should I do? I'm still hurt.

[Anonymous]

Being drunk isn't an excuse to dance sexually with other girls, and to lead other girls on. It was disrespectful of him, and you were right to break up. However, since everything happened so quickly, it's probably a good idea to talk to him. Tell him how he made you feel, tell him it was unacceptable of him, and that frankly, you deserve to be treated better. If you don't want to be with him anymore, then don't be. He hurt you, which someone you love should never intentionally do.

[Anonymous]

i wouldn't get back with hhim if he puts more immportance to money than my feelings and dances like that with girls. a sorry won't make things better.

[Anonymous]

he shouldn't be dancing like that with other girls, I would dump him since he has no respect towards me

[yaddayaddayadda02]

You'll get back with him, and take dancing lessons.

[Asker]

why you say that I will get back with him.? and by the way I'm a good dancer. he just dances too sexual in public...

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Because you know he's a desirable male.

[Asker]

but he hurt my feelings...

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Have you broken up with him?

[Asker]

yes I have...

[yaddayaddayadda02]

time will tell, then.

[Asker]

dont you think tho that it was wrong what he did?

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Eh, it was just dancing.

[Asker]

but he did not respect me when I said no don't do that

[yaddayaddayadda02]

Is it only respect when he does what you want him to do/not do?

[Asker]

dont tell me that it was right to do what he did? how would you feel if your girlfriend grinding with different dudes ..

[yaddayaddayadda02]

I'd be fine with it. My wife, would be pissed I had a girlfriend, though.

[MrSquiggles]

You need to pull your boyfriend's ears:P

[Asker]

what you mean?