Why Or Why Not? In detail: 👇 I was on the wrestling team in high school and did grappling in the Marine Corps... In my experience, no male enjoys wrestling with a girl they can't subdue... But I personally enjoy making them submit... Tap out...Thoughts?#TapOut#FightLikeAGirlPlease explain your answer... Good morning!!! 🌞🔆🌻
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What Would Motivate You To Change Your Mind About Wrestling A Female Opponent?
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Would You Ever Wrestle With A Girl Who Is Stronger Than You?
Yes! I did and she won by 2 points. I was in a MMA 9 months program and the girl was 9 years younger than me, same weight class and 8 cm points something shorter and i will never forget this because i came 7th in that program of 27 people. She couldn't get me on the ground, she couldn't lift me either and she came 6th. we were 7 people of the same weight class, so one girl had to to fight another girl who was way too small for her so they didn't count it. But! I lost to a girl, apparently! STRONGER than me :P seriously she punched like a champ and i learned a lot from her but am kinda her motivation speaker sooooooooo, i win :D
I always wrestled with my colleague in school (not really willingly), and all of them were supposed to be stronger than me, however, I always got out unscathed, while they weren't so lucky... That was a pattern that happened almost every time, until they decided that it's better to not include me anymore. Another thing that happened quite frequently was that the clothes were not always remaining intact. That is mostly due to the fact that none of us were professionals and we had no clue what we were doing... So basically... Anything went as long as it looked like wrestling... And pretty much everything looked like it... So if you don't mind being touched anywhere and you're willing to take the risk of being hurt or ending up naked I don't really have any reason not to do it.
I frankly I wouldn't want to wrestle the begin with. I like watching wrestling I like watching boxing but participating in it is not for me. I have gotten into two fights my entire life and neither one was a fight that I initiated and I didn't really care to be in the situation but I most certainly refuse to go down. I always told my children the same modo that I believe for myself I don't start no trouble don't go looking for any trouble but if trouble comes Your way and you can't get out of it then stand your ground. You may not have started it but you better finish it.
Well damn girl! Never knew you were once in the corps! I've only ever done kick boxing, and it was like a 10 session groupon thing I did with a girlfriend. It was a fun experience, but not my cup of tea for physical fitness. I don't find myself big on contact sports, and if I already have the knowledge that it's fact that one can easily make me tap out... why would I care to put myself in that position? I'll pass lol
Lol! I enjoyed reading your post! Thanks for sharing something about yourself! It's nice getting to know you better! And no worries! I've only had five female opponents... It's not a fair fight... One girl nose was broken and another KO... So they only put me against male opponents to be fair... I was bodybuilding while in the Marine Corps... My weight class was 160-180... But I fought the males up to 240lbs... It's grappling... So it's all about techniques and strength is a plus! I enjoy chatting with you! You give great opinions
This might not be like the other opinions but it's kind of a kink for me? If you weren't looking for sexual replies, please read no further. I don't have a ton of skill. I don't have a ton of stamina. Still, I suspect I could probably win most matches against most women just with the natural size and strength difference between genders.
I have a feeling anyone with a decent level of skill could whoop me though. I can see myself taking it easy with most. I can see myself mistakenly taking it easy with the wrong girl though and getting my ass handed to me. Where it gets kinky is when I start trying, but still get my ass handed to me. There's something about a woman having absolute complete control over me, purposefully working me over until she knows I'm good and exhausted, and then enjoying tormenting me knowing I have nothing left in the tank. It turns me on to imagine someone that would be able to make me their bitch and have their way with me.
I enjoyed reading! Thanks for explaining your answer and sharing your kink... We have some similarities... Thanks for the honest feedback I appreciate it
Yeeah sure, come at me and let's go. Uuuh, but maybe I need to learn how to wrestle first tho... I don't mind being beaten by a female. I don't see it as an humiliation or something. If she is more skilled (which she probably is) she'll win. I'm also wishing her the best of luck, because I'm quite heavy. Unless someone is in my weight class of course, but yeah kinda hoping that's not the case. I wanna use my weight to see what I can achieve haha
Fun question and I'm curious to see you go at it and kick some ass. So if you do, please share 💪
Kinda stalking your opinions tour sharing lol and might have answered this in one of your other questions.
love wrestling, and so quiet often with my wife, play fights, but they have got to be competitive wrestles, that’s what makes it fun.
is she stronger then me... well she is definitely al lot fitter than me and a lot more stamina, and yes I would say stronger definitely her legs are as scissor locks are her favourite to make me tap out.
It is all just good competitive fun, and I would definitely wrestle a women who is stronger than me, I have a reasonable high pain tolerance, but would most likely loose like 10 - 0 ... lol 😩
I love when people do that! I wouldn't ask the question if I didn't want opinions!!! Every opinion is valuable to me! It gives me an opportunity to read and connect with others on a deeper level or just a sexual level... Depends on my moods lol
For what it is worth it is not the strength that guarantees you a win it is a skill please forgive me heard taking you back down memory lane Bruce Lee and Chuck Norris and China always fought bigger and stronger opponents and it's not just in Hollywood but in real life you see young man taking on opponents twice or three times their size and strength and as seen most of them win they are outmatched by height weight strength but yet they overcome their opponent it is a skill but they possess I've been told and I have seen first-hand that Braun and strength are no match for skill and knowledge.
I was a wrestler on the varsity team. I weigh around 180 and have a muscular fit build so I never really wrestled any women who were stronger than me. However I did wrestle women with more skill than me that gave me a good challenge but I didn’t lose to girls often at all. The only time I had a girl really make me look weak in a match is when she was playing dirty. She was smaller than me and I was controlling her easily but she kept going for my groin and got me there and obv since you are a wrestler you know our gear offers no protection and kinda makes that area visible so I went down right at the end of the round for almost a full minute while she was just standing there. Fortunately for me the hit was at the end of the round so I did recover and come back and won the match.
@secret6620 Np! Also, I must ask as a girl wrestler did you ever aim for the groin on purpose? I feel like most girls I went against did and they took advantage of how revealing our singlets are in that area which gave them a clear target.
Absolutely not... I fight fair... We are already not respected for being women in a male dominated sport I don't need to add to it by being stereotypical... Wrestling is strategic... It doesn't involve grabbing privates...
@Secret6620 I agree it’s unfair I didn’t like that it happened but I just tried my best to learn from it. I actually told a girl I sparred/wrestled with on my team to try to cheat by allowing strikes and stuff there in our sparring so if any girls tried that again I could learn how to avoid it.
To be fair to a cheater that move would be strategic bc it could grant them a win that they otherwise wouldn’t be able to get with their smaller body. Most girls I knew played fair it was just some that I could tell were definitely being dirty on purpose taking advantage of how revealing our singlet is. Even had a girl on my team joke and say “the bigger the balls the harder they fall” while joking about hitting a guy there in a match. I’m big down there and the time that girl was dirty I wasn’t wearing underwear underneath it to support me (stupid I know).
Do you think that allowing groin strikes would be a good equalizer in wrestling between men and women? I just think bc wrestling is low contact that the risk for injury would be minimal and it would give the girls more of a chance.
Oh and in response to your edit yes I would wrestle a stronger girl If I had to but ofc I would feel uncomfortable by it. As a guy I know there are plenty of women who can beat me and are larger than me and that’s fine but I always like to think that I’m stronger than most women and that I would easily overpower most women which I have done in almost all my matches. I have a girlfriend and whenever we play fight I have to go easy on her So think I can take most women in wrestling but there are always outliars which are extremely skilled and strong women and I’m ok with that. If they beat me (fairly) then they earned it. Oh and thank you for your response!
Yeah definitely, I'd love the opportunity to - to me it's a primal fetish.
I would want to have a match where both parties would try to win. Whoever gets their opponent to completely submit to them and winner gets to dominate the loser. I think it would be hot to build it up, like schedule a date to wrestle. That would allow both people to train and workout along with coming up with strategies and trash talk to their opponent before facing them.
Totally yes. I actually only enjoy wrestling stronger oponents. I would wrestle my male cousin all the time despite him being muuch taller and heavier than me. When it comes to girls, I don't feel ashamed to be beaten by a girl in wrestling. I would enjoy it - I like badass girls. I would kinda feel bad because then she might not think very well of me (girls like stronger males as far as I know) but I know that my physical strength is bellow average and I would have to work out a lot to reach average. Everybody is good at something as well as not very good at something else. So in conclusion, if I felt that the girl is not going to dislike me if I exploit myself as being weaker, I would wrestle her and totally enjoy it.
I did not say no, but I will answer the follow up anyway. What would help - it would help if the girl appreciated the guy despite him being weaker (she can still appreciate him for emotional support, intelligence and all sorts of stuff). Also it would help if after dominating the guy, you would softly "rape" him (with his consent of course) and it would end up as sexy time.
My question for you - do you only appreciate and respect physically stronger men, or the men can be physically less capable than you if he has other good feats?
I respect all men and women who give me respect in return... I just enjoy dominating others... Always have... I challenged boys to arm wrestling contests during swim lessons ahahahaha 😆🤦👏! I like to prove how strong I am... Joined the Marine Corps to prove it even further 😊 I have issues
I use to train a MMA team. I had been in kickboxing for a few years at the time. It so happen that a female came in and wanted some boxing training and she happened to be an expert in jujitsu. So we shared our knowledge with each other and the team. We later started teaching a free self defense class at the community college for anyone who needed it. I enjoyed wrestling with her since I was learning but this was actually very hard for me to do this since I found her attractive and I feel like she may have felt the same way with me but we both felt a bit weird cuz we had turned into great friends. I will tell you that there was a few times that I could not concentrate hard enough to keep myself from getting a boner while we wrestled though.
Wrong!!! If you utilize that way of perceivement of men you can't lop them into the same category as if they're all the same they're not. And I definitely would wrestle. We all have limits strength and integrity. When utilized properly you will have the answers the procedure and the basis of all sizing up of all situations. All women/men are NOT the same.
Guys don't want to wrestle with girls because it's always a losing battle. You win: "Of course you win she's a girl, why did you even try so hard, are you pathetic?" You lose: "haha you lost to a girl you are pathetic!"
But for a girl if you lose, you were not supposed to win anyway, and if you win, you hit the jackpot. So there is no way to lose, but to win big time.
I have no ego and will submit any girl that's a brown belt or lower in our Brazilian jujistu sparring sessions. But that doesn't mean I can't likewise be submitted by one that like myself holds a brown belt or higher or just gets the upper hand in a grappling session.
I don't like losing, be it guy or girl, teen on child playing me at Monopoly or Checkers. 🤣
As wonderful as the opportunity sounds, I will tap out before the contest. I will alow her to win without a fight. The process of obtaining bruises is too painful for my liking. I am pretty usure that she would be able to bring down a 85.1kg (13.4 st, 3,001 oz) man. I am confident that in her training she got to practice on some not-so-willing voulenteers. Once again, thank you for the opportunity, but I am chickening out.
For the update: What would motivate me to wrestle her? When I have a very good chance of winning and not getting hurt. Secondly, if she is a girlfriend, and the wrestling is consentual sexual game.
It would make me really nervous. I would feel like if I gave it a real effort, I might hurt her and I'd feel guilty. With her being stronger than me in this scenario I would also prefer not to just let her maul me either, nor would I want to use some cheap tactic to get the upper hand. lol Going to have to decline.
I totally understand that dilemma... Most guys feel like that until the are in a headlock and can't breathe... It's motivating let me tell you... The idea is to piss the guy off so that he wants to fight... It's not fun when they let you win... It's obvious...
I suck at wrestling since I have never tried and, frankly, I would probably get distracted because she is a girl. I would also have a hard time going full strength since I would be afraid to hurt her. I don't think my mindset would fit wrestling anyway, unless it was just for fun and games because, in a fight, I fight for my life and I would just feel frustrated by rules while I feel like my life is in danger.
If the goal is to make each other submit, but with pleasure rather than pain, then it would be super interesting. There are so many wrestling moves to adapt to an erotic situation that I'm sure it would be super interesting. Also, I love the whole "Will you choose to resist to the grapple or will you submit to the pleasure?" dynamic.
That definitely makes sense... For myself I enjoy the pain aspect of it... But everyone has different kinks... Thanks elaborating on your answer further it! It helps me understand better without making assumptions... Oh and good morning 🌞🔆🌻 from USA
Oh, interesting. Personally, I'm not a fan of pain as I tend to be very sensitive or apprehensive when it comes to touch. A mere surprise slap kind of puts me in danger mode so it kind of ruins the mood but I know some people who like the pain.
There is a specific kind of pain that I find kind of appealing, but it's probably not applicable when it comes to sexual situations. That pain that I tend to like is the kind of thing that makes me think "That's painful, but it does not stop me" and that makes me feel strong. Probably not applicable to sex because I tend to feel that after workouts or like after going through brambles and being scratched everywhere.
I'm curious, do you think you can describe the appeal of pain sexually speaking? I'm curious as to how it makes you feel and what causes you to feel pleasure from it.
I'm glad you love France! It's a beautiful country indeed. There are so many gorgeous places to see with all sorts of landscapes. Unfortunately, I know very little about the USA so I can't really compliment your country back.
Aww, really? That's nice to know. It's funny because even in French I have a particular accent and somehow it got the attention of some girls. Isn't the French accent hard to understand though?
Yup, nice job! :) Le problème quand on me demande de parler une certaine langue c'est que je ne sais jamais quoi dire. Du coup, à chaque fois que l'on me demande, je répète toujours ce discours disant que je ne sais jamais quoi dire et, ironiquement, ça marche bien.
Me too I tend to be interested in languages, in learning a few things. I especially love learning to repeat sentences from video games and learn a bit of the languages this way. That's how I learnt a huge part of my English and how I learnt a few words or sentences in various languages.
I would love to know Japanese but, unfortunately, I tend to be awful with different alphabets. I mix different letters and my writing is awful but Japanese culture interests me to an extent and I would love to be able to understand this culture more through its language.
Oh my goodness!!! Japanese Isa challenging and rewarding language!!! There's a stroke order you follow when creating the characters to ensure they're drawn right... Three different alphabets to learn as well... Katakana, Hiragana, And Chinese Kanji... This makes up the Japanese language!!!
I did a bit of Chinese during my engineering school so I know a bit about the stroke order, the squares and all of that but, I'll be honest, I struggle a lot because my handwriting is awful in the first place and the characters are just way too complex for me overall. That said, Japanese symbols look slightly simpler or smoother compared to Chinese ones and the language itself doesn't sound as confusing. Chinese is a nightmare with all the accents.
Yeah why not if she is strong enough to stand against me but I would rather love to tap out then making them tap out as sign of respect for her effort and outstanding talent because woman deserve respect
I've wrestled with girls before, but I've never lost to one. To be fair, I am at least double their weight, so I have a massive advantage. But it's still fun... :)
If it was my sisters yes just to show her its not all about strength just be fun and if it was a woman i was datting i still would but probably turn it into something romantic but kinky too
Thxs im truly am a sweet lovable romantic honest guy just looking for something long term relationship possibly marriage and kids one day but im also very open minded to anything too like i wouldn't mind if we do the whole dom/sub and switch if u want or into it
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