What would you do if your S/O asked for your cell phone or passwords (not emergency) they just desire to have access to your passwords?

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

[IceCreamSandwich]

Well we just started dating so I would say, not yet. I want to get to know her and think I can trust her a bit first. Maybe in a month or so, I'd give her the phone password. But no account passwords. It would have to be a serious relationship before I even considered that.

[God_of_Thunder]

I'd tell her "no"

Everyone has the right to privacy, even in a relationship, and there's no functional reason for her to have my passwords, or me to have hers, unless we didn't trust each other. Lack of trust, in itself, is a relationship killer.

If there were ever a situation in which she had a legitimate need to access my accounts, then I would have no problem logging in for her, but I see no reason for her to know the actual passwords.

[Dinklex3]

I won't give them my passwords, but I'd give them the pin to my phone.

There's no reason for them to have my actual passwords.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

But there is to for them to have your pin number?

[Dinklex3]

If he's weird and just wants to check my social media, yes. My phone already has access to everything with the auto sign in

[rachel776]

[NathanDavis]

I have absolutely nothing to hide

I can unlock my phone any time, for them, no worries...

but I would not give them my passwords and that is just common sense, the less exposed the safer it is, and that is the whole point of a password, safety...

[AviatorTom]

My SO often uses my cellphone when she doesn't have hers handy, and I gladly give her the access PIN. Interestingly, she rarely remembers it, and I have to give it to her the next time she uses my phone.

[LazerBean]

I don't think someone can be that significant in your life if you have to hide things on your phone from them.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Why you think its hiding? What's the need for you to know your hubby's passwords?

[LazerBean]

Because it is hiding LOL the only reason a couple in a legitimate relationship (marriage) would have secret passwords and secret accounts is because there's something they don't want to share. My husband and I share all of our passwords, that's how the whole being united as one thing works.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You didn't answer my question. What's the need of you legitimately needing to know each other's passwords?

If you didn't have the passwords, would you still trust your husband?

Do you believe blind trust in a marriage?

[LazerBean]

I did answer the question. Either you ignored it or dont know enough about what marriage is supposed to be to grasp that it was even there

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

Just say you feel better being nosy and don't believe in 100% blind trust in a relationship so you need your husband's password to feel better and less insecure.

Don't lie to yourself. LOL

[LazerBean]

I've never once gone through my husband's phone. We both (and our parents all) believe that only people who play games are afraid to share their passwords to the so called "partner". Just say you don't want people seeing what's on your phone, don't lie to yourself.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

I wouldn't mind givin my girl my passwords assuming we are married if she tells me she's feeling insecure and it makes her feel better etc to have my passwords.

I wouldn't need hers nor do I care to have it.

[LazerBean]

Sure you would.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

No need to lie. Telling you the 100% truth. I have never suffered from being insecure in a relationship with my girl.

[LazerBean]

Oh I'm sure, clearly you're happy as long as she doesn't touch your phone.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You don't have to believe me. 🤷‍♂️

[Jaximus-Lion]

She already has it. I have thump recognition plus four digit code so she can access my phone. None of us hide things from each other. She uses my 2 pcs and our accounts are all synced, we share everything, never had a second thought about it.

[Anonymous]

I think how long we've been together would be the determinant. I wouldn't care, I have nothing to hide. But the fact that she asked would denote she doesn't trust me and that's cause for concern.

[musicbrain5]

Well I have nothing to hide, so if he wants them, fine. But I would wonder why he wants to look.

[EmmaMary]

Both my husband and I have full access to each others phones.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

For what purposes?

[EmmaMary]

We prefer not to have any skeletons within our marriage.

[Hispanic-Cool-Guy]

You both just can be honest with each other so I don't see how that correlates to needing someone's passwords.

[EmmaMary]

You see things your way... We see and have things our way.

Wishing you A Very Happy and Peaceful New Year.

[BJP21]

The only passwords I share are Netflix. Cell phones to me is an invasion of privacy.

[Anonymous]

No.

Unauthorized access can risk me my job and livelihood as well as all my bank's balance and more.

[Pudsmucker]

I wouldn't let anybody use my cell phone. I would not give him any password to anything most of us use our cell phone for majority of our banking. Do you trust this knucklehead.

[spartan55]

I'd tell her to get steppin.

[exitseven]

OK by me. I have nothing to hide.

[Anonymous]

That would be a total turn off and I’d say no.

[msc545]

Hard no