Which is worse, being left on read or delivered?

[Simslover92]

I tried calling but didn't get an answer.

I texted I hope you are ok a few hours later. And at first I was left on delivered but now I'm just left on read.

I'm just like why can't you respond and say you're alright. You obviously are okay if you took the time out to read it. It doesn't take much to say I'm okay (I didn't text that by the way).

It honestly pisses me off when people can't communicate something that simple.

Left on delivered

Left on read

[aaron13547]

Whats worse is having no one to text at all. I know it hurts and is aggravating because you care so much and feel like they dont care at all... but you have to do better for yourself... when. They show you they dont want you to care you find someone that does 😕🙃🙂

[dudeinohio]

Left on read is worse because they saw it and refused to respond.

[Simslover92]

Right.

[Still-alive]

oh beleive me its part of why im not so keen on dating these days lol. like basica communication seems lacking.

but ehh i think im actually more concerned if my message was left on delivered. i don't at least have that satisfaction of knowing my message was read. and in some rare instances it could mean they blocked you.

at least if its on read i get that 'ok they at least read it'. i can be somewhat satisfied with that unless its something i really really need a reply back for.

[TwoDecisions]

Neither. I don't assume people have time for me 24/7, and that I'm not the center of their world.

"But it only takes a couple of seconds" yes, so what? They're still doing something else. I seriously miss the times BEFORE mobile phones, where people weren't expected to be reachable 24/7 where they are some awful human beings if they don't want to communicate with others when they desire. It honestly pisses me off if people think I should be available to them all the time, that they think they should be the center of my world as soon as they reach out as I've nothing else going on. Luckily the people in my life are not like that.

[HawkPerception]

Left on read is definitely worse. If they didn't read it, that's one thing. They might be busy or something. But being left on read means they read and willfully chose to not respond. It gets to you especially if it's more than one day. You think to yourself... "They don't care enough to get back to me. They have the time, but I don't even enter their thoughts."

[Joshydavid25]

Depending on how long it's been, definitely being left on delivered.. Because it tells me that they didn't even bother to read it or act like they did.. They're just letting the message sit there left unread.. Especially if it's been over a day.. Being left on read is definitely rude and annoying (but we've all probably done it more multiple times).. But, being left on delivered can be worse..

[Nikki1989]

People often mistakenly believe that texting is a form of communication.

[PeachyPie93]

Depends how long it is.. If its a few hours I don't mind.. cuz people work and stuff.. but if they leave you on read for like a day or 2 it's worse..

[Iron_Man]

Are these the two guys you’re talking about? That’s extremely rude of them

[Simslover92]

No I'm not seeing those guys anymore. Just a friend.

[Iron_Man]

Oh ok how long did he ghost you?

[Simslover92]

Not long. It was maybe 2 hours later when he finally responded

[Iron_Man]

talk to him about it and say you don’t like that

[Simslover92]

Ok I will

[Iron_Man]

Good 👍

[realbiggrin]

Left on read I believe, if my text required an answer.

[msc545]

Try not texting with people, and things will get better.

[DrPepper12]

Team droid. Don't care.

[unsteadydreadfeeling]

both can be just as bad

[AngryCarl2]

Why wouldn't he be alright?

[Likes2drive]

Left on read

[fish5505_87]

At least they saw who it was and read it!

[CubaPirate]

Being bothered

[Anonymous]

can't make up my mind.

[queenofcardio]

Left on read

[TonyMetal___86]

I agree with you!