Should I move to a city in a different state or stay in a big city in my state?

I'm from Decatur, ga which just outside Atlanta LITERALLY JUST OUTSIDE THE CITY. I've lived in the city before and I loved it. Some people welcomed me and treated me like I was one of them others treated me like a outsider. I've always wanted to start a family in the city of Atlanta but I've been looking at Charlotte too. My son lives in Greensboro, NC which is about a hour from Charlotte. I have family in Charlotte the times I've visited it gave a nice home felt vibe.

Should I move to a city in a different state or stay in a big city in my state?
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