Last year I prepare a card for valentines day for my boyfriend but he didn't get me a valentines card, what should I do for this year?

[fairytale]

Last year I prepare a card for valentines day for my boyfriend but he didn't get me a valentines card, what should I do for this year?

[DubiousIntentions]

Maybe this year he will get you one. If he doesn't this year then you've got the wrong guy. So send him one early, so he will have time to reciprocate in time. If he doesn't you might feel like a. . .

[Danny_dan92]

A relationship should feel natural. Nothing should be or feel forced. Also both people should be happy being in the relationship.




If those parameters aren’t met? Consider the relationship dead.

[Guy13]

Do what your heart tells you. You know how he is already. Show your love or disdain however you think is best.

[kylee2437]

Still prepare something for him this year. Don’t match his Last years energy and set the tone. Did you ever communicate to him on how this bothered you?

[kylee2437]

You should’ve though. That is you setting your boundaries and expectations and clearly communicating that you expect things on holidays.

[spartan55]

Is it a holiday? I don't know about that.

[kylee2437]

@spartan55 Valentine’s Day is a national holiday

[spartan55]

Hmmm didn't see it on my calender. Will I get that as a paid holiday from my employer? 😁

[kylee2437]

@spartan55 we wish we did however I now use the holiday to appreciate myself more. Massage session for me it is on Valentine’s Day ☺️

[spartan55]

I'm just giving you a hard time... it's too late to start pressing your buttons tonight... 😂

[kylee2437]

🤣 I already know what you do

[spartan55]

I enjoy debating with you, for the most part.

[spartan55]

@kylee2437
Could you follow me please?

[Paris13]

Wait and See if he Gets One this Year, dear. Sounds like it Don't come from His Heart from the Start... xx

[SnowedIn]

Exactly what @kylee2437 said. Underlined twice.

[Avicenna]

Get him something else but no card

[sadgirl0210]

Don't worry about if ur boyfriend got u something or not... U should two should just spend time together it memories that counts not gifts because anyone can buy gifts but no one can create and buy memories

[KittyKat90210]

I think you should give him a card if that's what you would normally do. I wouldn't base it on whether he gave you one last year.

[WhitneySnow]

Ask him if he’s gonna get you a card this year. If he says yes, get him one too. Some guys just aren’t into Valentine’s Day.

[LilMissLeanna]

Get him another card. Give expecting nothing in return.

[exitseven]

Don;t get him anything and if he does the same thing give him the silent treatment until he get with the program.

[kellytheman]

Maybe he forgot last year so maybe throw out a couple subtle hints Valentine's coming up and he might get you a card or something better.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

Don't bother. If he complains, site that he didn't do it last year. What's good for the Gander is good for the Goose.

[ryancg]

I don't know, do nothing I suppose. It's not like Valentine's day is a real holiday, so it doesn't matter. Then again, I'm a cynic

[written-in-the-stars]

Do the same. See if he shows through another gesture

[Paul09]

Valentine's was created by store to sell products at a higher price. And you don't live each other once a year...

[Anonymous]

get him nothing. he doesn't care about you, hence why he didn't get you anything last year.

[Opinion Owner]

sorry to be so blunt, but you kinda learn it the hard way

[villainfantasy]

Call him and tell him to buy a card or else give your card back.

[FitMom]

If you want to give him a card do it! You might regret it if you don't

[krin_m]

Do it if you want to and don't expect anything in return. That was you will be happy doing what you want to do and will not be disappointed.

[EaterPeter]

Give him an advance card with its your turn and some write some of the simple things you like to do or receive.

[Alex8736]

same and if you don't get a simple thank you then it's time to give an ultimatum come spring time

[Bklynbadboy12]

Okay he didn't get you a card but did he at least give you a gift