Girls, Valentine’s Day friend zone?

[Anonymous]

Girls, if a guy messaged you “happy valentines” whom you didn’t like what would you reply? What are signs of a friend zone?

[Cynicaldreamer]

I would just say, "Thanks! I hope you have a great day!"
Or ask him what his plans are with his girl/wife... implying I hope he has fun, but I don't like him that way.

As for signs of being friendzoned? Unfortunately I'm an expert on this (mostly because I've been friendzoned so much)-

• They ask you for advice on dating and the opposite gender.
• Or they offer to set you up on dates, or help you make a dating profile
• They refer to you as a brother or sister... you're definitely out of luck at this point!
• They see you "going out" as just hanging out, NOT a date
• They're really comfortable around you...
• They overlook or don't seem impressed by your compliments

[Asker]

Doesn’t look like any of this stuff relates to me, hopefully!