Guys, So I should not care for him? Guy who supposedly likes I’m the two years we’ve met he hasn’t told me happy Valentine’s Day or happy birthday?

[736_switch_blade]

Maybe it’s because we had sex and he sees me only as that

[WaterIsland]

So just to understand, you’ve known him for 2 years. He likes you. You’ve had sex. But has never said happy birthday or happy Valentine’s Day. Did I understand correctly?


If you’ve said those things to him and wished him a happy birthday and such, then yeah, that’s a red flag.


It’s hard to know exactly what his intentions are by not telling you happy birthday or happy Valentine’s Day. Those are two small moments and can’t really be used to make a determination on his intentions.


But it is something you need to dig into more and figure out more.

[736_switch_blade]

No I haven’t said those things to him and he hasn’t said them to me beforehand

[WaterIsland]

Then you can’t be too disappointed in that. If you haven’t wished him happy birthday or happy Valentine’s Day, why do you expect him to?

We all get what we put out into the world. If you want something, the first step is to embody that yourself.

[msc545]

Has he done anything you liked?