Does a sex act replace a Valentine’s Day gift?

[JessicaEarl]

Yes

No

[DestinyElizabeth04]

It depends on the dynamic of your relationship. Every single relationship is different. Whether it be financial or simply how they express themselves. My husband and I simply had Valentine's Day sex. It was fine by both of us. There was no gift giving or anything extravagant but that's also due to the fact that my husband and I don't need a specific day to tell or show each other how much we love each other. I'm a firm believer that if you are with someone who needs a holiday to show you they care than you're with the wrong person. So anyways, sex in place of a holiday is fine by me and my husband. Other people's relationship holds differently than ours though.

[21Cowboy21]

I really like this answer. So many people are way too materialistic no I find. Most of it just ends up in the garbage the next weekend anyway. The memories and feelings we create with our loved ones and friends and family - those are the powerful gifts that last. The real gifts were always remember and cherish theoughout time

[juliammm]

I offered an FFFM evening to my boyfriend.

I invited two girls he never met before. These girls are together in an open bi-sexual relationship. They were happy to share this evening with us.

I had no other gift for him, but he was very happy.

[Guy13]

A planned sexual escapades would be gift enough for me, however, I know it would not be sufficient for Valentines if it was other way around. Keeping that end nice and in a relaxed glow is all part of that Expectation of her man equation.

[OfMiceandMen]

I don't think the actual act can be substituted, but if that person is okay with you buying some lingerie or a toy for them that leads to the act, that would be fine. Matter of fact, it would be the gift that keeps on giving...

[SnowedIn]

Only you can define that for you. But, for me (and for my wife), no, it does not.

[Emiliamazing]

I don't really need a gift and neither does he, we look at Valentine's Day as a reminder to have a little romance :-). It's easy to forget when life gets crazy/busy.

[Paul_in_Indy]

Do you mean a sex act that I don’t normally get offered to me as a special gift? That does sound nice

[BeMuse]

If you're trading sex for material goods/money then you're just a prostitute. It's pretty spot on to the definition.

[21Cowboy21]

Please BeMuse. Its 2022. We need to use correct vocabulary - a weapon of a more civilised age - as emporer palpatine would say.

I prefer the term manwhore.

[Ms_Facesitter]

You don't have to do anything for Valentine's day, but I'm sure that he'll appreciate extra spice instead of a box of chocolate.

[Wish4UrB00ty]

It can but it also dose not! Lol! It depends on the person and the relationship.

[Katie1964]

I gift is something you give someone. Sex is an act you do with someone.

[NostalgiaSenpi]

No. Then, what? Are you going to use it over their head for getting them to do things, like chores and stuff?

[msc545]

sure why not? It is more thematic related than candy or flowers.

[Anonymous]

I'd say it depends on your partner and how present her dad was in her life. 😆😆😆

[handsomeblackoutlaw]

A great Valentine's Day gift is to give your girl a hot braying !!!

[BJP21]

Depends on how you both interpret it.

[LEGENDARY4200]

Depends on the circumstances

[Guardian45]

They complement each other!

[CubaPirate]

I does if I'm the recipient

[riverrat3]

Only if it is a different act

[elizamichale1]

Sort of

[krin_m]

Always!