How to stop saying awkward shit to girls and be funny and stuff?

[VV3ZZY123]

So I'm hanging out at walmart trying to practice asking out ladies on Valentine's day. And I saw a really hot woman and I said "Are you single?" I knew it was stupid thing to say.. but I just panic. I always do this! 😦 And why do I beat myself up? I can't say something funny...

[genericname85]

a LOT of what "is" awkward is determined by you feeling awkward about it. if you don't feel at all awkward, it is very hard to be awkward.

so really it's all about how you carry yourself and your self reflection in any moment. not so muchabout what exactly you're saying.

it helps if you're just being genuine instead of trying to play the role of "the guy that isn't awkward".

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea it's just cuz iv not tried in years 🔥🥵

[genericname85]

try what? my point is that you don't have to try anything. just speak your mind. be yourself. it's good if people don't like that. that's how you know who to associate with and who not.

[VV3ZZY123]

Try what? Are you serious? You think girls are gonna come talk to me? You obviously dont know

[andreasderjuengere]

Being "funny" can't be studied, I' m afraid.
Try to find your own way of expressing yourself.
To copy the ways of others would make you a copy of others.
Know your own qualities - and use them wisely.

[andreasderjuengere]

thanks, mate. And good luck :)

[Drew-1990]

Yeah I know the feeling man, I know what to do I just can't do it. We got to get out of our heads and just talk to them like they were a someone we already know. I don't know how people do that I try so hard. But heck if you're walking up the random girls, one of them will probably appreciate you actually attempting even if it seems awkward, some girls like that because they see you are trying.

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea it's a challenge. I have this ego that gets hurt a little it feels like.

[Drew-1990]

Our problems are a little different, I don't have an ego, just been rejected so many times and I don't like it so I avoid it now, too much.

[VV3ZZY123]

That's kinda how I am. I can go out and try to be social, but I'm not having sex and it's not fun.

[Drew-1990]

I just want a girlfriend, I wouldn't sleep with her anyway till married or at least we can say I love you to her. I won't lie I want sex too but I will wait for the right one. I don't want to regret who I sleep with

[VV3ZZY123]

I think you gotta pull the trigger though. If you dont socialize a lot and you meet her, its gonna be awkward. she will not be interested.
You have to lead with humor

[VV3ZZY123]

Look Up Coach Corey Wayne

[VV3ZZY123]

You gotta be comfortable with rejection

[Drew-1990]

I agree with that pulling the trigger with taking to girls not the sex part, still believe that is a married or love thing only.

[VV3ZZY123]

Oh I see..

[BlissfullyCurSed]

I wonder what she said to you after that.

[VV3ZZY123]

😂 I'm surprised I didn't get maced.

[BlissfullyCurSed]

Oh so you got an answer to your question?🤣🤣🤣

[VV3ZZY123]

😂 I learn now. I be better next time 😭

[jahaims]

You think valentines day at a Walmart is the place pick up women? Lmfao

[VV3ZZY123]

It is when you live in your car 😂

[jahaims]

Work on getting your life together before you worry about pussy

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea I know. I've just been locked away for so long. And I'm finally free

[AngryCarl]

What's wrong with asking a girl if she's single? It's polite but it shows an interest.

[AngryCarl]

Why are you guys simping for chicks anyway? That is how you end up divorced and poor in middle age.

[VV3ZZY123]

Yea but it sets her up for an easy "no"

[AngryCarl]

Then you move on. No harm, no foul. If she's not interested don't waste your time or psychic energy.

[VV3ZZY123]

Simping haaa if u only knew