Was I wrong for not wanting a relationship?

Anonymous

This guy asked me out for a relationship he said he really liked me etc but I said no because he doesn’t have his life together

he’s 21 living in a sober living home no job and can’t leave and get a job because of the sober living thing. Also he was living out of his car before hand.

I didn’t feel that. And I told him.
he said he cares about me and really wants me and he will wait for me and he doesn’t want to stop talking to me.


. Then on valentines day he pops out with a girl. A girl that is “his friend” that he didn’t talk to until recently. Posting her all over his story TWO DAYS after asking me for a relationship. I asked him about this “friend “ before and he said they didn’t talk. when I asked him why didn’t he tell the truth about her he said

“ I didn’t feel I was obligated to tell you who I was talking to “

was he right because he went for the girl who is “ better for him” and I said no so he moved on.

Am I just being bitter? and jealous?

Updates
2 mo
Guys obviously I liked him hahahaha
Was I wrong for not wanting a relationship?
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