She seems to have disappeared but not sure if she ghosted me or not?

[Anonymous]

the last time we talked things seemed fine between us but that was Tuesday of last week and i have not seen anything of her since. she had been coming to the gym every Monday/Tuesday since start of year but didn't show this week.

that being said i'm not sure of the reason for her absence , feels like she might of ghosted me but have no idea why , we never even talked about valentines day or such , we just had this connection and got along

[DishLady]

If she disappeared that's your answer...

[Asker]

i'm not entirely sure where she is or why her schedule would of suddenly changed

[Anonymous]

You act as if she goes to the gym for you specifically. Sorry if that has become the case for your gym visits but that doesn’t mean the feeling is mutual. On top of that it’s one week, she may have other things to do or probably just didn’t feel like going this week. It’s called taking a little break.

[Asker]

i didn't say she went there cause of me , just that she had normally been coming out but for some reason not there all of a sudden , she always said hi to me and we talked , it just seems weird for her to do this

[Opinion Owner]

You said it feels like she ghosted you, and why else would you think that if you didn’t feel like she was going on your behalf? Anyway, you’re making too much of this. It’s ok for her to miss a week of working out and you shouldn’t make it about you. It sounds like you two are friendly at best.