99,9% of all guys are jerks and perverts. when they like you --they will do what it takes to be nice and to get your attention, once their feelings of affection have died out for you- they poses all the jerk like qualities and expose their pervertness.
Now agree or disagree? I know this question or this comment could stir up some men saying that girls are like that. that's could be true. But my topic of curiosity is focused on males now.
guys and girls can answer. do you guys agree or disagree?
and is it that hard to find an Non-jerk guy ?
Update: Okay maybe not 99.9% more like 90%- agree or disagree?
A month ago
Update: Thanks to all that commented and voted! :)
A month ago
Update: Which gender do you think Is more perverted? Male of female? or do you think both?
A month ago
Update: I'm sorry guys but Honestly I guess 4 what ever reason I met & fall for the wrong type of people. at times I just start to loose confidence in guys. & Feel like majority of the guys are just all the same. They are awesome friends, idk.
A month ago
Guys need to have some sexual desire, otherwise you might be falling for a monk!
And every guy sure has some point in time that they are jerks to their friends, family and loved ones. We make mistakes, and may take a long while to realise our stupidity.
However, neither the females are perfect. I have seen girls who play with their boyfriends, leaving them broken hearted too.
At the end of the day, life goes on and hope we meet people who do not break our hearts. :D
Of course, let us not break other people's hearts too.
I would put it at 99.9% all my friends used to be guys, they all treated girls like crap, they would cheat on girls I'd have killed to date. And that's why I have almost no guy friends anymore. The only guys I'm friends with now are actually gay, so I'd not expect them to treat girls like crap. I'd say very few guys are non-jerks. I'd not say every guy is, but the majority are.
I'll b looking forward to that day when a non-jerk like and un cocky guy comes along. - A month ago
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It will don't you worry. just remember, everything happens for a reason and everything happens for the best and if your good to other people then other people will be good to u i recently heard the quote be nice to everyone you meet/see because on ur way to top you'll see them need their help to get to the top. it wasn't exactly like that but you get the point of it - A month ago
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You know it's funny that you say that because the people I've dated..and towards the end of the relationship they would say " I still enjoy your company, you are a nice and compassionate girl" so in the end they all see me as nice and compassionate and not what they want. - A month ago
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I'm Starting to think I don't work well with that specific horoscope sign. ....Or my way of showing I love them is not what they are looking for. ..... signs.. idk. ... - A month ago
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I don't really understand ur first comment tho. expand more? yea I used to beieve in horoscopes but then stopped because I'm not going to let a paragraph or some stars tell my future when all of them sound alike and the whole thing never comes true. and plus I found out its against my religion - A month ago
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The two exclusive relationships I had (the two guys that I once loved and once loved me ) were the same horoscope sign (both Aquarius) ..maybe...they don't fit well with my personality. At first everything seems to go so well, so compatible, the passion seem to die out so fast. .....I can't explain. but yea - A month ago
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The others I've dated but didn't love --weren't Aquarius ......I guess it's kinda hard to explain I guess. - A month ago
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Yea I don't really like to follow horoscopes for reasons like that like if you like someone then astrology doesn't matter - A month ago
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I guess it just turns out that these people are both the same sign and I liked both of them and both didn't work out and they both moved on rather quickly and I've fallen to hard for the two I really loved...and then I start to wonder .....about other unambiguous things. - A month ago
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Yea but don't worry im sure the right guy will sweep you off ur feet soon enough a sweet girl like you deserves it - A month ago
Idk. ...just lost hope in love I suppose..can't say I dated a whole lot but there were two guys in specific that I truly loved. the other ones --not so much and both of them leaves me with an empty hole in my heart and making me hate males... I know I shouldn't base my thoughts on the few but I'm the type that falls hard --but thaxs though. :) - A month ago
I do think that SOME guys are like this, but I don't think there is a percentage that can be defined, but I don't think of myself as one of the 99.9%...
Dear you can't say on % base but if you have a relation with someon base of physicall attration or sex then definitely after some times you try to run away from it .And as we need two hands for clap OR we need two hands for prayer...mistake is not only from guys side ...grils also equally responsible for that aslo some extent . Not all grils are like that but few are definitely like that.
You women need to stop blaming all of us guys collectively because you CHOOSE to date the bad-boy types. You've rejected (or pretended you didn't notice) many nice guys in the past just so you can date the jerk off types because they are "more exciting" ...that's your f***in fault yo, so stop saying that we are all perverted jerks because that sh*t gets mad irritating.
99.9%? Not even close. Sounds like you've just been dating/meeting a lot of jerks and perverts. There are a lot of compassionate, sensitive guys out there. You just have to be careful and not get sucked into a relationship with someone who is insincere and questionable. And remember, not all guys are perverts and jerks.
It's either my personality or their personality. But I tend to attract the Jerk like ones. They seem fine when I met them as friends. All nice and sincere. "Oh you need help?" I'll come help you. and while dating? "I want you to do what you want" " I'm not trying to influence you" and then when the attraction is gone? or they are not getting what the want? ---It's like they don't eve know you. --Moving on so fast. I guess that's what I hate. Moving on so fast. - A month ago
You're just choosing the jerks and rejecting the others. Ask yourself WHY you behave like this. - A month ago
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Y I attract the jerks or Y I choose the jerks over the nice ones? - A month ago
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I'm just fed up with how people behave after the break up. because I certainly won't behave like that. but I know this is life and part of human, just can't stand how people can be so cold and rude and harsh and selfish and and I know people are different. Just something I can't stand. - A month ago
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I'm not trying to put you down, honest, I'm just a sarcastic ass :)
Anyway, it sounds like your last several bfs were the kind of guy who kisses your ass at first, then acts like he's "won" you and loses interest. I don't know if you're seeking out that personality type or it's just a streak of bad luck. Either way, I swear we're not all like that. Keep an eye out for dudes who don't consider themselves players and I hope your luck improves :) - A month ago
oh I was going to say its just 90! I think guys would be a jerk because they no longer respect you the perverseness is always there psh who doesn't have dirty thoughts. :)
Pervert would be someone who does sexual things I consider bizarre, AND who has no restraint about it. I don't care what people do behind closed doors, but I don't necessarily want to hear about it or see it.
Jerk is someone who'd consistently selfish, inconsiderate, cruel, and otherwise jerks me around.
By those criteria, I'd say nowhere near 99.9% of men are perverts and jerks. - A month ago
No we are not all jerks and/or perverted. I'm nice to everyone unless they act like a jerk to me first. Even then, I would more than likely avoid them. Also, I doubt that its as high as 90%. Its just that a certain amount of guys act that way and we seem to be stereotyped that way.
Which is more perverted? Don't know. There are a lot of perverted people out there, male and female.
I've lost count of how many times I've said this, but it is your age group that makes you think what you describe.
Once a guy hits puberty all the way until he's established in a career he generally will treat women as disposable toys, not all guys are like this and not even 90%, but definitly the majority.
Once he's off on his own and doing his own thing he'll grow up and start treating women the way they should be treated, at least in the vast majority of cases.
But of course you think you're a total winner. - A month ago
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Currently I'm dealing with a guy that's only been talking to me for my body. But I can't base what I think about all guys on just him. You have to get to know any guy before you call him a jerk or say he has "pervertness" otherwise you're the one being the real jerk.
On this site possibly, but in real life I think you can find some good guys who won't jerk you around. Although I do agree completely with your first paragraph, many guys do exactly how you describe.
Yep I agree, guys are the hugest pervs on the planet, women don't even come close to what some guys are like. It's ridiculous. And a hell of a lot of guys will say anything and do anything just to get in a girl's pants, it's like a game for them and it's wrong. Then when they get what they wanted they are gone in a flash. Losers.
Maybe accross the pond women are still taking an example from the Victorian era, but here in America women are definitly the more perverted, they just do a much better job of keeping it to themselves than guys. - A month ago
I mean as friends I think males are awesome guy friends but once in a relationship I think that's another story. - A month ago
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Ya I know what you're talking about of guys really "liking" me at some point and then for some reason they decide they really don't like me and become jerks [just hope it's not me...I usually try to be really nice to them, too nice] and often are perverted too. but if that many guys were that way then hardly any relationships would last or at least for long just because of that. - A month ago
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Well I guess what I'm trying to say are "some" --at least the cocky ones - A month ago
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Ya but in your question you put 99.9% [then at least 90%]...which is obviously a whole lot more than "some"...unless you were exaggerating of course. - A month ago
well the first time I met my guy he was nice with me, then he turned into a jerk and arse, so I told him to bugger off, we made up after three days... and he was as sweet as pie to me for the next 7 years.
What the problem with guys is, is they have seriously short term memories, they live in the here and now, even if you have the type of relationship that people envy, if you have a few months of a bad time for whatever reason they can easly forget how wonderful you are, and start to panic that you may be in this funk for the rest of your lives together, unless you have that amazing guy that's willing to stick around and help you through a bad time.
I have a lot of wonderful friends who are guys... I think it is about even. There are likely just as immature men as their are immature women (immature as in self-serving). It just manifests itself differently for men.
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