I don't get superior about it or anything. I don't say "well I don't drink because I find it morally reprehensible, " or anything like that, I just don't like alcohol. I had one night of drinking (about ten shots five of tequila and didn't get buzzed or drunk or hungover or sick or anything. And since then I just don't want to drink, I just don't like it. I'll usually just order a soda or water.
Do guys find that unattractive or a turn off? What do guys REALLY think of a girl who doesn't drink?
I think that girls that don't drink are attractive to me. I don't drink for religious reasons. So I am a big believer that drinking does not make you a better person and a waste of money. So I think it is not a turn off that you don't drink. You have your head on straight. I usually buy sodas.
To be a nondrinker means a person has better things to spend their time and money on than alcohol. Same can be said about smoking. Devoid of drinking means you have made the choice of being in control of yourself at all times instead of a habit being in control of you. I give rave reviews of people who don't drink, smoke, chew or do drugs.
Big time TURN-ON to women who don't drink. Or drink much at all. Kudos to you
As a man who has never found a reason to get drunk, because it never helped the situation in the long run, I respect a woman who doesn't drink, since it shows she is able to handle situations in her life without running off to get a crutch, which can be helpful when you break a leg, but harmful after the leg is healed. I also respect the fact that you don't push it onto someone else.
This depends on a lot of things. The first is why she doesn't drink. If she condemns anyone who drinks or anything extreme, then it's absolutely unattractive. This doesn't sound like your situation at all. Besides that, you have to consider that one of the big reasons guys drink around girls is to loosen up and have fun without being so nervous. Same goes for girls, I would imagine. If you aren't able to relax and have a good time without alcohol then it might cause a stiff and awkward situation the first few times with a guy. (Side note: isn't it sad that most people need alcohol to be able to loosen up and have fun anymore? ). The last risk is that he will feel uncomfortable drinking around you for fear of looking like an idiot while you're sober. As a result he may choose not to drink and be uptight as a result. Overall, though, if it's a logical choice then I don't think it influences my opinion of the girl.
If you don't like alcohol don't do it to please a guy. If your next boyfriend doesn't understand you shouldnt be together. As long as you aren't judging me cause I do drink or your next boyfriend that it shouldnt be a problem
Lol drinking doesn't bug me at the least! I hang out with drinkers all the time (some are on the verge of being alcoholics). I think they're more fun anyway. I'm usually the one driving everyone home at the end of the night. But it really doesn't bug me at all. - 7 months ago
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