How many of you girls will give a bigger guy a chance? Why or why not? Also what's the biggest you'll go?

Honestly my best relationship/ guy I have been the most compatible with - he was a bit overweight. Upon first meeting him I had zero interest because he was loud, super outgoing, and of course - overweight. And then I kept seeing him around and we got to talking and I realized what a stupid, superficial judgement I had made. We got along so well, the greatest feeling to just click with someone and not have an explanation why; you just do.

Anyway, he became more attractive, in my eyes, physically because I already liked his personality. We come in all shapes and sizes and I learned my lesson from that experience alone, that no one deserves to be written off simply because of their outer appearance. Best of luck to you in finding someone, but don't feel too down about it because anyone can have issues finding someone - even seemingly perfect-looking people. We all deal with the struggle.

I believe that everyone deserve a chance so I don't rule out guys who are bigger. I prefer guys to be bigger than me actually I would feel weird with a smaller person. But I always look at the person's personality like if he can make me laugh at any time or if we can have serious conversations with each other then I don't see why I should not like him, you know.

There are so many other qualities in guys that are greater then looks like

1) Honest

2) a great listener

3) a person who can make a fool out of themselves and not care about others opinion

4)Is spontaneous.

5)Enjoys what he does [whatever that may be].

theres so much more but you get it right?