Is he just trying to be friends or does he want to be more??

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there is a guy in my class and I really like him... he is everything I look for in a boyfriends... his funny,sweet,caring, he loves his family.

we will call him mike!

well Mike is a smart, honor, wealth high class type of guy( well that what is family lifestyle is like) and I am mid class tall curvy girl. mike's pass girlfriends or girls that he talks to are long blonde hair, skinny-skinny- bone- skinny girls. mike is always flirting with me;he talks to everyone and is very friendly, but he winks at me, and will look at me for a very long time... also in the hallway he will not notice me, but only if we are in a small group or in the class( choir class) room.

well my question is ... does he like me or is he just joking around flirting as just a friend? What do I do to get him to like me? how to act around?

i seem to dork out...SUPER-NERD AROUND HIM

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now me and mike are talking, but it's more childish flirting type things he say thing like, "im going to beat up" & "oh, bring it on"he'll playful, pretend to hit, and I pretend to hit him in the balls :)what does this ,mean?

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At least initially it sounds like he does but sometimes these questions can be colored by the emotions that come from wanting it to be true. That he doesn seem to notice you in halls is the part that makes me wonder. I'd say watch for things like if he makes attempts to be around you or makes excuses to share your company. If he's initiating contact it's a very good indicator.

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- Orion
  
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  Understand this about guys. We're bad at sub-context unless we're delivering a sexual innuendo which we can do at the drop of a hat. Joking around without any other indicators is just joking around. Clearly he likes you enough to play around with you and welcomes reciprocation, but he might not be looking to do anything more unless he invites more interaction beyond just playfighting.
  
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