it would depend what kind of personality they had. like if she was just a bitch and thought she was better then everyone I would hate her. If she was really nice I wouldn't be jealous at all.
haha yes! we can get very jealous. typically the first thing a girl will do if she feels like there is another girl who gets more attention from guys than herself, she will find something bad to say about that girl (slut, whore, fake, ect.). even if its not true, its all they can do to feel better about themselves which is very pathetic.
i'd feel sad initially, "so here comes the angel - she will grab away all the men on this earth, so I'll be hee fighting for my piece of cake" and later get back to normal and just accept the plain fact that am not the hottest woman possible ever and that the differences in the male of human bodies is to be celebrated, and not resented, I'd wish for the gr8 looks and guys falling, though ;)
Me personally I feel envy because she's really cute and sexy but, then again I think about it & say to myself I'm pretty, sexy, cute, & much more as well :) & there's a reason why he's with me & not with a other!
For me it's neither. I don't generally get jealous (it does happen but not that often) because I consider jealous to be pointless. I remember being 12 and realizing that, which is why it tends to amuse me that so many adults NEVER realize it. Nobody has everything no matter what we think and there is a downside to everything. So I just don't get the point of jealousy.
I also don't assume a girl is sleezy or slutty just because she is pretty. I usually don't even think a girl is that way even when she says or does things that will usually make other people think that about her. Because really, who am I to judge? It sorta disturbs me the way we females tear each other down. Plus I have been called a bitch, slut, whore, etc. more times than I care to count and I don't consider myself to be any of those things. Usually the people who have said that were other females who didn't know me all that well. I can't say for sure what motivated them. Jealousy? Hatred? I have no idea. But I know what it feels like so I try not to do that to other girls. From time to time if a girl does something particularly shocking then I might react surprised or even horrified, but I try not to formulate an opinion about her based on my initial reaction to what she said or did.
And why is it that if a guy is sexually "free" we (society in general) don't think twice about it, or even look at him positively. Yet a girl acts the same way and we label her a whore. It disturbs me.
I forgot to say what I DO think when I see a pretty girl, lol. I pretty much think, "Wow, she is really pretty!" Then I check her out (not like that, lol) and see what specifically about her I like. I consider myself to be pretty attractive so I see if there is something I like better about her compared to me and can I emulate it? Do I want to? I use it to get ideas to maximize my own potential I guess you could say. Like if I see a hairstyle I like, or an outfit that accentuates her form, etc. - 2 months ago
Sure, we get jealous. I try to keep it in check, but when my office hired a girl who's totally hot it bugged me for a little while. I'm over it now. It helped that she's pretty cool.
I think she's slutty and I look down upon her in that respect, like I wouldn't be friends with her. But I'm also jealous that she gets the guys. I don't know why do you guys only seem to go for those slutty girls? lol
It depends, if It's a hot girl I know, and luv, to b around I'll b happy for her, but if she does get a fella that I want, of course I get jealous, especially if he wants her but she doesn't want him, and doesn't even take a second glance at me, I know, it sucks.
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Describe your ideal first date; Where do you go? What do you wear? How does the date end?
We would go somewhere that expands our knowledge, maybe an interesting museum art exhibit, or maybe someplace awesome like an arcade and play games and loosen up around each other. I would wear my usual, red windbreaker, white T, jeans and my black shoes. The date would end where I lean in to kiss but move toward her ear and whisper " I had such a fun time tonight" and tell her I'll call her.