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Ladies, when a guy says he likes your shoes?

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Anonymous User (Age:18 to 24)     When: 9 months ago
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whats the first thing that comes to your mind? do you think he was flirting or what?


Update: Whats the difference between that and saying I like your earrings?    9 months ago

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    Anonymous User
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    Anonymous User
    9 months ago
    When you say you like her earrings your just complimenting her taste in jewelery - not really flirting

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  • LittleMonster_13
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    9 months ago
    To be honest I would think he's gay.

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  • lostnclueless
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    9 months ago
    to be honest it would just sound gay to me.

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  • youllthinkofme
    1363  
    9 months ago
    It's a bit weird...I'd understand if he complimented my dress if it was skimpy or looked good on me, but stuff like earrings, shoes, bracelets, bags, basically accessories is kind of weird.

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    9 months ago
    well I'd probably say thanks or something, but to me guys or my past boyfriends have only said things like

    "that shirt looks nice on you"
    "those shoes look good on you"
    "you look really nice" etc, etc rather than saying "I like your (item of clothing)"

    if he says he personally likes them then it might be kind of weird, but flattering at the same time?

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  • mormollio
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    9 months ago
    I always wear cool shoes with designs and stuff like that. So it's not weird for guys to say something.

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    9 months ago
    Dame he's gay

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    9 months ago
    I don't like when a guy compliments my clothing.

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  • jrose
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    9 months ago
    I wonder what shoes I'm actually wearing, probably look down to find out. Then I'd say thanks and wonder why he noticed since guys don't usually pay attention to shoes. Depending on a lot of other stuff, I might think he was flirting or I might just think he actually liked my shoes...If he compliments me on my earrings, same kind of deal...If you're actively trying to flirt- it's just best to say "you look nice/pretty today"- that one is pretty clear and I'm flattered even if you're not flirting.

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  • strawberrynecklace
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    9 months ago
    I'd wonder how he noticed them because guys are oblivious to most details. And it would also depend on what tone he said it in to me. But I would either think he is gay, or is really trying hard to get my attention without sounding too obvious. That's my take on it!

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  • LexieGreen
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    9 months ago
    Why did he start at the bottom is the rest relly bad and he had nothing else nice to say?

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  • kady4e
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    9 months ago
    ''Is he gay?'' - should be the first thing...

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What Guys Said

  • GuyAdviceFromGuy
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    9 months ago
    Foot fetish hands down

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  • Yeahhbro
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    9 months ago
    i would probably think if I was a girl that he has some weird foot fetish.

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    9 months ago
    Women think that he might not be gay but his boyfriend probably is. link

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  • Moloch
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    9 months ago
    Word I'd like to know too. I don't just say that just to say it, I say it once in a while if I think they have nice footwear on.

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  • honeyltsme
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    9 months ago
    Girls are hard to grasp sometimes. We can't say nice boobs or nice face. Picking apart analytically the facial features and body shapes even for a compliment's sake is freaky. Eyes - cliche.

    I think it depends on the situation. I don't think we can trust the girls' specific responses here because absent of context, they jump to conclusions.

    If the shoes are nice and so are the feet in them (no cankles or toes visibly tortured/deformed from too-small footwear, or bad pedicure), I think most girls don't mind one bit of they receive some recognition. Many girls are mad crazy about their shoes and spend way too much money on them and are very proud of them.

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    9 months ago
    It means he probably wants to wear them, along with most of the other stuff in your closet

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    9 months ago
    I've had that once, didn't think much of it
    Maybe a girl could enlighten us

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