How can I get rid of my boyfriend's baby momma?

He saves the pictures. Obviously he is encouraging her. He's not sending her the right message that the relationship is solely for the child. It's his problem to get rid of, not yours. You can talk to him about it, tell him how you feel. But as long as he is giving the green light for her she is going to stay in his life. Does he want her out of his life in a personal manner and only there for the kid? It doesn't seem that way. So if he's not going to budge on it and change his mind then you can either deal with it or find a new man. If he does want her out then he needs to tell her to cut all communication unless it deals with the kid and when she sends pics they need to be deleted and he needsto tell her that's not appropriate.

I agree with what Charizzle said.. But you can't get rid of her. Period. What's going on won't stop. I'm sorry to say but the string she's got on him won't go away. Even if he asks her to stop sending the pictures, she'll find joy in sending worse ones. Some women are evil and she seems to be one of them, if he's saving the pictures, he most likely won't mind getting more... And 3 years! You shouldn't have stayed that long if this was something that was going to turn into a problem. Are you sure they're not still sleeping together? I'm not trying to be mean, I've just seen this situation before..

well firstly I'm glad you know that they have kids together so it's impossible for them to not acknowledge each other, and it's also impossible to 'get rid' of his children's mother.

you say it's been going on for three years, have you talked to him about it? just make it clear to him that what he's doing with her is what he's supposed to be doing with you. give him a lot of examples so his thick dense skull will be able to absorb what you're trying to put across to him.