I never was like this when I dated my previous boyfriend but for whatever reason I am all worried about silly Facebook and snapchat things dealing with this new guy.
The new guy and I have been dating exclusively for 4 months now and his friends/family call me his girlfriend. He is also starting to refer to me as his girlfriend.
I guess I just tend to over think things. For example, on snapchat you can see the top 3 that he most frequently snaps and the 3rd one is this other girl. The other girl has a boyfriend now (I Facebook stalked her to see what she was all about) My guy had a fling with her in the past but never had sex. He says that she means nothing to him and that I am the one he wants. He has even showed me the snaps that she sends him which are usually dumb things anyways.
How do I stop worrying? He has no idea how much it bugs me and I don't plan to tell him. I just hope eventually she goes away as me and my guy get more serious and her and her guy get more serious.
Am I over thinking this? I mean I too have other guys that send me stuff on there too but it means nothing to me because I don't want anyone else.
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I think you are definitely overthinking it.
remind yourself the significance of social media on reality is minimal. we you feel pangs of jealousy or whatever remind yourself that you are committing to not overthinking this kind of stuff
when you say guys send you "stuff" what does "stuff" mean?0
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