Hi I'm a 16 year old girl and a junior. There's this guy in one of my classes who I really like. But today I found out he is a freshmen! Me and him talk daily, but 'what grade we are in' never came up in the conversation, until today. The bad thing is, I lied and told him I was a freshmen too! Ugh. I lied to him because to me it seems teen guys only date girls their age or younger. I've never seen a guy date a girl more then a year older then him, and I'm 2 years older than him :/ He seemed so happy to hear I was a freshmen though. He was like "omg I knew u where a freshmen, I always wondered what grade you where in and never asked but I knew you where a freshmen somehow" Then my friend was like "no she's a junior" and he seemed kinda confused and/or dissapointed but I told him my friend was kidding and he seemed happy again! I don't know what to do, should I tell him the truth? Because he seems to like at the moment but what if he gets weirded out I lied and doesn't like me anymore cus I'm a junior :/ I have to see him tomorrow and I think he's still confused what grade I'm in because he kept asking me. All I responded with is "its top secret". I'm pretty sure he thinks I'm a freshmen still, that and he's very confused. So yeah sorry its long but I'll take any advice guys :)
My questions are will a freshmen guy date a junior girl? And what should I tell him tomorow?
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You should apologize to him because you lied, and then talk to him about the age difference and say that its wouldn't make a difference for you, it does depend if you want a relationship, if you do then talk to him about, its more encouraging for a boy when a girl brings the subject up. Hope it works out, but if you sit with him and explain why you lied (because you like him) and tell him that you like him, and it will all works out :)1