My boyfriend and I have been dating for 7 months. I know he cares about me a lot and I adore him, but there is one thing that really bothers me. Whenever he goes away, he never really calls. The first time, he called one and he was gone for 5 days. I was pretty upset, but never said anything. Then he went away again for about 5 days for work with my best friend's boyfriend. *they work together. That time he called me every night, but I feel like it's just because he saw his friend calling his girlfriend. Last month he went away and sent me texts and that's fine with me. I don't need to have these long conversations every day, because neither of us are phone people, but it's nice to know he's thinking of me. Yesterday, he left again for 5 or 6 days and today I got my wisdom teeth out. He knew that I was really nervous and scared, but he never called or texted today to see how I made out. I just feel really bad that he didn't care enough to check up on me. I know I should talk to him, but I just want some other opinions- esp guys. What do you think?
Why doesn't he call when he's away?
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If he is around his work buddies it might not be "cool" to talk to his girlfriend. Guys have pride/ego issues so his buddies might make fun of him for being so close to you. But since that one guy was calling HIS girlfriend then your guy probably didn't feel intimidated calling you because the other guy was calling her too. But I am sort of baffled about the wisdom teeth thing. He could have forgotten? I was getting my haircut and I was so nervous about it for a month, and my best friend didn't even ask me about it. I had to say something to her. Hope this helps a little. :)0
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