Me and my boyfriend got in a fight last night that he caused. He texts me today, unapologetic, defending his reasons. I told him if he wants to talk things over he needs to call me or talk to me in person, Because I don't like talking bout this stuff over texting. He never replied, never called, nothing. But he is on fb going on about the giants world series game. I'm about 10 seconds from just dumping him. Should I just wait to see if he contacts me or just go ahead and end it?
Apparently baseball is more important than me
What Guys Said 6
A game is more important than you. Think about it. A game.
I bet he is not that excited about going to church.
The problem with women is you will reward his bad behavior with sex when he wants it. You were last on his list because simply put, you are not worth it. The game came first.
Find someone who will cherish and place you first. If you don't think you are worth it, no one else will.
just relax before you make a rash decision. guys are different from girls, we really aren't one's for talking we're more for internalizing things and eventually letting them go. forcing him to talk about is just gonna cause more arguments. Plus they just won game 4 and the series so he is probably celebrating as we speak. don't take it personally1
This is the anon guy's girlfriend. He is laughing at your question because I literally am pissed at watching sports ALL DAY LONG. If its not football its baseball or basketball. I'm so annoyed by it you have no clue. He can't give me the time of day because of sports. I feel you! End it! I'm -- this close to as well. PS (this is the bf...blah blah blah :P)0
End it now so he can watch the last inning in peace. My girlfriend just blabbed crap about me watching it. Blah blah blah0
What Girls Said 5
Don't break up with him. But don't be happy either. If it were me, I would let him be and don't make any contact with him at all. Don't reply to his text messages, and if he calls you then make up an excuse and get off the phone fast. Then the next time you see him tell him without getting emotional what he did to you and how that made you feel. This isn't about your fight any more. This is about you needing him and him not being there for you. Knowing guys, he probably is using the game to get his mind off of it all. Anyways, once you get your feelings all sorted out then discuss the fight you had. and remember that you should always pick and choose your battles. you can't win them all the time, and if it sounds like something you should just let go, then depending on how serious it is, just let it go. relationships are all about compromise. girls and guys are very different creatures, and every person is different as well. I wouldn't end it unless he mistreats you or he isn't willing to compromise with you. hope this helps you out. good luck0
Dude, it's the world series, major sports event. leave it alone.
If he was like this for every single baseball game, I would understand.
More than likely, the game for him is a bit of an escape right now.
What was the fight about if you don't mind me asking.0
let him have the time with the guys, he was probably texted you for a while and he needs to have fun watching sports with the guys my boyfriend does it all the time with trading card games0
Hey! no don't end it, don't do anything that you will regret later. Take the rest of the night off, don't contact him. Give yourself some time to think about what you fought about. I agree with you, you should talk face to face or on the phone. Just do something for you, something that will make you feel better. Then tomorrow insist that you talk in person!0
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