Tinder - no luck - am I ugly?

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please rate my looks and please be honest even if its rude, maybe give some advice if you can as well

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you make me SMILE :) wish there was more girls like you out there.

[PicklesMr]

You should try online dating harder. I can share you my friend's experience for inspiration. He met a very lovely girl on
few months ago and about three weeks ago she came here to him. They are madly in love and my friend told me that they are getting married later this year... But he is so happy :) I guess, if people love each other so bad, there is nothing unusual in getting married so soon.

[d3f3cted]

never heard of that site before... any good.

[billy420]

Wouldn't say you're ugly but tinder is tinder thousands of fake profiles. If you're looking for some casual sex then just keep trying it but if not then then I wouldn't even bother. Try going to a bar or something

[d3f3cted]

I don't have a problem getting sex but im not dating material apparently. and if I try adding guys to test that theory of looks I get your hot and cute and stuff all the time

[billy420]

I see, well look at yourself a bit more there may be something about your personality that most others don't like. Like i was always told I had an awkward personality not strange or anything but I just gave off this strange vibe. Once I realised my luck in dating changed. I'm not saying change yourself drastically coz you need to be yourself more than anything but go down that route before calling yourself not dateable. If you do get a date n it don't work don't worry, takes time to find the right person

[d3f3cted]

I guess its because for the last 9 years I have never had a problem, when tinder first came out I did well, don't remember what im doing different because now I don't get many matches and when I do they bots or people who say hi and nothing else

[stillagoodgirl]

I don't have fb so it won't let me see but tinder is mostly for local hookups

Maybe you give off a bad vibe

[d3f3cted]

pictures ok?

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[stillagoodgirl]

You're not ugly but I didn't suggest using that dog photo

[d3f3cted]

thanks for being honest. I don't think im hot but im average looking right. and some girls say im cute or attractive or they wanna bang me but never have any luck. im just trying to work out where im going wrong. thanks for your post. may I ask why not with the dog. I thought shows im good with animals and caring. dog looks so calm

[stillagoodgirl]

Ya you're average :)
I don't know to me the pose with the dog doesn't look right plus I don't really like dogs

[d3f3cted]

ok. any suggestions on how to take pictures and whats good and bad?
I been told no girls and no friends and now no dogs. maybe just myself with top on and dressed up and close up face shots but not poser or selfies. gee its hard for a guy

[stillagoodgirl]

Lol ya for online dating it's best to be alone in the photo

Have a friend take your photo if you're not so good with it

[d3f3cted]

Thanks

[d3f3cted]

out of 10 what would you give me and would you date me. im curious. if so why and if not why

[blackeagle007]

Tinder or any dating site is a joke. I belive its about meeting peoe in the real world.

[blackeagle007]

People I meant.

[d3f3cted]

I agree but people are always on there phones and uncomfortable talking to you if you don't already know them these days

[LittleSally]

Awww you're really cute.
I guess Tinder just isn't your thing...

I hear it's mostly for hook ups.

[d3f3cted]

really? or your just being polite and nice... would you date me or swipe yes to me?

[LittleSally]

You're the guy on the left in the first pic... right?
There isn't Tinder here in Croatia, but if I met you somewhere out there and I liked you as a person (this is important - very important) I'd date you for sure, because you wouldn't just be interesting, you'd be physically attractive to me as well. ^-^

And no, I'm not just saying this...

by the way, that's not me in the pic so... just so you know. :P

[LittleSally]

I thought everyone knew this was some British model, but apparently no one does?
Weird...

[d3f3cted]

hahaha you sound really cool. ill pm you

[d3f3cted]

u have to pm me though It won't let me pm you

[LittleSally]

Cool! Thank you! ^-^

[Slothgirl]

Lol ur better lookin all guys i see on there i try once

[d3f3cted]

im better looking then most the guys on there you see is that what your saying?

[Slothgirl]

Yes , it that what i said :) ur are welcome :)

[d3f3cted]

thanks for the confidence boost

[Slothgirl]

No problem :)

[TripleAce]

Bud, Tinder is all about options. And girls dominate online dating, they have the advantage

Tinder also is about match making, so in order for you to talk to someone... both have to like each other

Just use a different dating siting thats not so difficult to match make OR find the bunnies in the real world>>>There no substitute for face to face interactions if you ask me

[d3f3cted]

yeah but what im getting at is if they going off 1 picture or whats in the picture what am I doing wrong. is it my looks or am I too skinny or what. I can't improve without knowing the problem. I want to be good enough and I want to be accepted

[TripleAce]

Oh in that case! The first picture is not the best kind to put up really. Its just alright looking with your friend beside you

Girls always say how they hate when guys have their shirts off in pictures, could be something to do with that too.

Also the second one looks a little less masculine then it should

I think its just the style of pictures thats the issue here

[d3f3cted]

ok any recommendations. and why less masculine. just curious

[TripleAce]

yea for sure! Iv seen worse looking dudes get girls on there

The second picture is good just change the pose, maybe you and your dog facing the camera... or you like throwing a ball at him or some random thing like that! You know girls and alpha males, they all love a sports kinda guys

The first one is sort of alright because it has too much noise in the background and your friend is there... Get one that compliments you and let the camera shine on your fascial strenghts

[d3f3cted]

thanks but what facial strengths :P

[Klaatu51]

the fact you had no luck in tinder doesn't mean you're ugly

[d3f3cted]

I just assumed if people are not swiping Yes or like or whatever on me maybe im not good enough and I want to be, it seems to be so hard to meet people and find the one these days, and I thought dating sites would of helped or been easier to find that special someone

[SomeoneImportant]

This one is for you bruh

https://youtu.be/eAfyFTzZDMM

[d3f3cted]

whats this I can't see it

[SomeoneImportant]

It's my theme song. I listen to it when girls call me ugly.

[SomeoneImportant]

That was sarcasm by the way lol. Just trying to use humor to help you out man.

[d3f3cted]

I appreciate you trying to cheer me up but im considering doing whatever it takes to be that guy that girls look at and stop traffic but it seems so difficult. I just really want to find a nice girl, I feel like im never good enough for anyone and its making me sick/ill and depressed and mentally unstable to the point where I don't wanna leave my room and just drink and hide and pop pills

[babydollface]

Real beauty comes from within, work on being a good person and having a kind heart, that is what makes people truly beautiful.

[d3f3cted]

people don't see that these days maybe when im older ill have more luck

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[blackeagle007]

Dude I can't see many women being impressed with that pic.

[d3f3cted]

can I ask why and which picture. is it ugly or?

[blackeagle007]

The one on ur gag profile here. gangsta signs? Really?

[d3f3cted]

ok thanks for your advice but I was going of these pics on tinder

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[Ihav2fart]

Hello Mr. Michael Tyler

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Hello

[WilliamWinslow]

This link doesn't work...

[d3f3cted]

which link... picture link?

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2years old but try this one

[WilliamWinslow]

Definitely you look healthy.
Personally I do not have strong opinions on men's looking, but I think you can get at lest 7.5/10.

[Anonymous]

You're fine just young.

[d3f3cted]

so maybe need to mature or age a bit more do I? or go for younger girls.

[Opinion Owner]

Well just relax and mature naturally. Everything will come to you if you learn to grow in all the ways you can.

[d3f3cted]

ok thanks for your advice