What do girls do at sleepovers?

I have asked my girlfriend several times what she does at her friends' sleepovers and she only tells me a little bit. Its driving me nuts. She says she might tell me later or something but now the anticipation is killing me. My girlfriend just turned 17 and I was just wondering if anyone can tell me what happens at sleepovers. My girlfriend seems very content with me struggling for this information and she keeps telling me that there are just some things guys can't know! I'm going crazy! Can someone tell me what really happens? I have heard some guy friends say that they play spin the bottle, truth or dare, strip, play strip poker, or have sex. I think the latter are pretty absurd. Please tell me what is true!


Most Helpful Girl

  • Trust me the dirtyest the we do is have pillow fights (which I don't understand how its dirty but a lot of people *mostly guys, pathtic* say it is) and talk about other people, I don't know why but it's mostly boys. IT's only boys because sometimes us girls really want to know the truth on what (if) a girl knows about a certain boy or if they did something wrong or funny (so technicly it's we just want to know everything haha) we also watch movies usually romantic comedy's or horror movies. And a really common thing we do is truth or dare, and the dares are worst than you think (let me tell you an example: I remember thjis girl picked dare and she was dared to go out with her pajams *it was cold out side and she had shorts on* with no robe, blanket, or jacket, and stand out for 5 minutes *no worries we wtahced her just incase* she came out with a cold for 3-4 days), sometimes we do make-up and hair. And this may be suprising but what I do at sleepovers is that I play video games (but that's just me and my friends so hmph...) K well bye! Your girlfriend is just trying to kill you (not really kill you but you know what I mean) It's something we girls like to do, we like to keep it mysterious so you guys suspect the... good? Does that make sence? What I mean is so guys suspect there gf's or girls in a (MAYBE NOT AlL GIRLS) sexual way. And other girls just do it because it's none of ur buisness.


What Girls Said 19

  • Hahaha. Okay, a typical girl sleepover runs something like this. We all arrive at someone's house or apartment or whatever, we watch movies (nothing above R, haha), we eat cookies or various other junk food and talk about relationship stuff and why we hate men (j/k! Well, mostly, lol) and the random drama in our lives. We play board games and card games, occasionally some truth or dare, but like the anonymous girl said, nothing at all X-rated. Sleepovers might involve some girly drinks, though this is a lot more common with college girls. Sometimes we do stupid things like riding in laundry baskets down stairs or singing badly to American Idol Karaoke until the neighbors yell at us.

    But there's no making out, no sex, no strip poker, no pillow fights in our underwear. That's the product of a fanciful male mind wondering what girls could possibly get up to when there are no guys around. There's no big mystery here. :)

  • The absolute wildest sleepover I ever went to involved us watching a porn movie. And that was only because the girls parents were out of town and she knew where her brother kept his stash. Everything else was way more tame.

    • And did you called in any guys after tht?

    • No. We were 15 or so and far too scared to do anything like that.

  • i haven't done any of that at sleepovers o.o

    i can't say for all girls

    but usually it involves watching a movie

    having lots of snacks

    talk about guys [.that are cute, not so cute, crushes, etc.]

    do each others hair

    and/or doing bad things

    like prank people in the area or on the phone

  • Well. The girls all wear their bras and cute panties. They pop popcorn and have pillow fights. Then they all proceed to make-out with each other. Then they scissor all night longggggg.


    They eat a lot, do each others hair, watch chick flicks, talk about boys most of the time. For example who is really hot. Who each girl has a crush on. Sexual things. Etc. Um. There is definitely some complaining about being "fat. " What girls are bitches," usually some drama.

  • Y'all need to stop watching porn. Girls do not get sexual at sleepovers.

  • Lol. With most girls ur friends are totally clueless. We talk about BOYS! , eat, listen to music, watch movies, talk about boys, and talk about boys.

  • LOL, those are absurd. I can't imagine having sex with any of best friends! That's totally weird!

    For us, my friends and I, we watch movies, gossip among ourselves about things, talk about boys, even play video games some times. We eat junk food and stay up super late, and just have a blast with our friends.

    For me, I can see it with girls. But one thing that I always wonder and think about. What about guys? I find it hard to imagine you guys do.

  • no we don't do anything dirty. We usually just watch movies and talk about guys

  • When I go to a sleepover me and my friends act like complete idiots, just let loose and have fun with the people we can feel totally comfortable around! Your girlfriend probably does not want to tell you because what she does might or could be embarrassing. we eat a lot. watch chick flicks. bake. get in the hot tub and gossip. dance around. we are just girls. :D completely innocent. that is disgusting btw best friends do not have sex with each other. or kiss each other. I'm sorry

  • Well, I'm 16. Me and my girls eat junk food, take lots of crazy pics (the craziest ones we send to our boyfriends :D), we play strip poker, yes, because around our girls, we can be comfortable with our bodies and who we are. We tell stories about our boyfriends, drink (not ALWAYS alcohol), We just have fun. We dance around in our underwear blaring music and using hairbrushes as microphones. Girls can just do whatever around their best friends without being judged. Sex is a no-no, since there are only girls there. lol But some girls may get curious (if you know what I mean :D). Don't let it get to you. She probably is just playing with you to keep you in suspense.

  • okayy buddy you don't kniw me en I don't know you but girls sleepover is very funn from your demise en you might look at uss like were shyt stupid en crazzii because we are we rlly don't give a f***x at sleepova we juss chyll with the girklies en have funn if it means drinki or smokin of striping with playin poker or streakin en runin nude in the streets. =]

    but yes we tend to get a little wild en even you bois can't tames our wild thangs underneath when its juss the girls!

    but yess yess your girlfriend is rght there are sum things you don't need to know en if she kept puttin off its probably because she doesn't want you in girliy bizz so0o juss don't mind it en if you rlly that bugged hang out w. the dudes damn boyyyyyyy =]

  • well... I hang out with the popular girls at school so I don't know if that makes a difference...

    We play board games... watch movies... play truth or dare... talk about boys, like how far we've gone with a boy (and one time a girl said she didn't know how to make out so some of the girls showed her then a few of us were making out for a few seconds.) some of the girls do crazy things. like hump other girls and try to grid all over us... (so yes sometimes we do sexual things) we honestly talk about what we think guys do at sleepovers. we eat. usually a lot. (one time we made pancakes and ravioli at 3:45 am.) we snuggle sometimes... lol Pillow fights occasionally. but yeah that's pretty much it. sometimes we get on the computer.. oh! and we take looootttsss of pictures! hope that helped you out.

  • we usually sleep in a bed together and pig out loads. We talk about guys lot especially our boyfriends who we want to be our boyfriend etc. We sometime strip dependent on our mood and same with making out. We will play strip poker and just let Our hair down basically we bitch about girls we don't like and stuff! We drink a lot and the run down the streets naked.

  • Well me and my friends dance, watch movies like Bring it on, talk about guys, take pics, eat junk food and usually at the sleep overs I go to, we don't sleep :) but the only "dirty" things we do are the run of the chicks. That's where we run down the street in either bra and underwear or just underwear, but that's only after 2am and if we are up for it. sometimes we experiment on each other just to practice. but we would never EVER have sex. But that's just at the sleep overs I go to.

  • Ppssssht. We just sometimes have pillow fights, talk about stuff (like girl stuff), watch movies, EAT (a lot of girls love to eat), dance (atleast my friends do), play truth or dare (once my freind dared my friend KT to french my other friend's cat, the cat attacked her) But we don't strip or have sex.

  • umm.. none of that happens but girls do talk about guys the entire time and have pillow fights and sleep in the same bed

  • Lmfao! Girls don't have sex with each other at sleepovers unless they are strippers or lesbian. We talk about boys like the whole time, pig out, watch movies, and just plain hang out. Yeah we don't play spin the bottle either because that's just nasty. Yeah your girlfriend just wants to drive you crazy. She wants to let your mind wander and watch you suffer with anticipation. Unless she's an exotic dancer, don't worry about her getting freaky with a bunch of girls!

  • Basically girls chill out watch movies, pig out, play board games, talk about guys, play truth or dare. There's nothing x-rated going on. We just chill and talk , its not that big of a deal. And we usually play pranks on the girls who fall asleep first like putting ice down they're shirts.


What Guys Said 4

  • For one of my ex girlfriends, "sleepover" meant "we're having relationship problems, and I need to discuss it with my friends for a good 25 straight hours. "

    For another one it meant "I'm going to go have sex with some random guy"

    Seriously though, Don't get worked up about it.

  • Hey guy,

    It's girls night out; leave her alone about it. You can ask her if she had fun and perhaps about who was there but just let her enjoy some time away.

  • Girls sleepovers just like we hang out in a garage drinking beer fixing cars and talk about woman, nothing wired. They don't have sex with each other, just like we don't make out with each other.

    Noting we need to know, just stay away,

    BTW, do you like your girl ask you what you had done in your buddy Joe Blow's house

  • Probably all of those, I would like to think they strip down to their panties and have tickle fights