So I'm a receptionist at a staffing company, and cute guys come in all the time! and they are always really nice, make small talk and such, and I ALWAYS hope one of these days one would ask me out! so far nothing..so I'm wondering, if you walk into an office and you notice the cute receptionist, how would you make it known you think she's cute/pretty, what kinda things would you say, would you ask her out? if not, why? what can she do to make it easier for you?
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Although this was a fun weekend, I will say that it's been one of those weekends as well. From the cute receptionist at the Porsche dealer, to the cute waitress after that, to the other cute waitress today, to the cute girl I saw outside that restaurant, to the cute girl at the gas station beside me, to whatever other girl I saw this weekend...you all sure are an awkward bunch. It's getting to the point where it's pissing me off because I literally never experience this elusive smile and blush that I hear other guys have experienced.
With girls in situations like a receptionist or someone else on their job, it definitely seems like they aren't down for anything more than what's required. That means no small talk- which I'd usually be happy about except that there is no other talking. I think back last summer when I was out at a restaurant, the waitress genuinely seemed to be either friendly or flirting. But other than special cases like that, everyone else just clams up. And this is all coming from a guy that is usually somewhat reserved myself.
So yeah, there's your answer. Hitting on girls is an art, and one that a lot of girls might not take too far when a girl seems to be preoccupied about her work. It just doesn't seem like the time or place to be flirting with a girl.0