So I've never been allowed to wear a bathing suit because my parents were so conservative growing up. Now that I am older and on my own I can wear them. I've just always noticed in the past that a lot of the bottom pieces on girls never look right ( well to me at least) . It always looks like it doesn't fit the girl's butt right and that the girls butts are sagging out of them. I know its hot when you can see her butt but most of girls have saggy butts that just hang/sag out. They don't look firm or lifted... Guys is that attractive? I'm just trying to get ideas of how my swimsuit is supposed to fit and what guys do and don't like.
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Honestly, if the butt sags a little out of the bottom...that's perfectly fine for most guys.
A bathing suit bottom is pretty much cloth, so there's nothing to "lift" the butt. It's like breasts w/o wearing a bra, they're not as "perky".
I'll be honest; most guys are NOT gonna say "her butt isn't super-firm; she's ugly". There are VERY few women that have very perky butts. Unless she's hauling ass on the elliptical 5 days a week and / or doing squats and lunges with medium weights...the butt is going to sag a little bit w/o anything "lifting it".
Girls are SO MUCH MORE CRITICAL about their bodies than guys are. Relax...it's ok! You probably look good in your bathing suit. ;-)0