Staring has different implications depending on your culture, but assuming he is an average American male, I wouldn't count on the thoughts in his brain being a very complex mystery in this case.
I'd call this guy a creeper, or pervo, or something like that, and aside from finding him at all physically attractive, you probably would too. Some guys just don't know how to control their eyes or their thoughts, and look at women at a gym or pool the same way they would a dirty magazine. If he were smiling at you, or approaching you to make conversation, the implication would be better, in that he values you as a real human being in real life. Currently, it sounds like he is interested in you as flesh, not even necessarily your entire body, just whatever parts of you he finds stimulating to his internal fantasies.
That probably sounds gross and awkward, but unfortunately it seems the most straight forward answer considering the age we live in and the standards (or lack thereof) modern men too often live by.
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He's dexter. He wants to get to know you before he kills you
To be honest. I don't know. A similar thing happened to me at gym also. This guy kept starting at me. No smile. Not saying a thing. He was really attractive! And he did it everytime we were at the gym together. Stare. No smile.
Eventually I got tired of wondering. I walked up to him, smiled and asked him to help me move some equipment. He smiled back and helped. Based on his response he's kinda shy.
I say speak to him. Yeah he has a girlfriend. But speak to him to get an idea of whether you're imagining it or if he's into you. At least then you'll know
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