That is an actually sad story, if only we told people how we feel. In my case I ' m engaged, so it ' s not really a question if I tell him or not. But with the guy before him, well, I thought I read the boy thoughts you described on left and thought he ' s shy, and did most of the steps, when in reality he was actually thinking like the girl on the right, so our relationship didn ' t last, I probably looked easy and he probably didn ' t have serious thoughts to begin with. But, to answer you question, if I was single and I ' d like a guy I ' d told him openly I like him and ask him out. I ' m not shy to do it when I like someone. I may have a problem with being talkative during the date at first, as I ' m more quiet naturally, and I ' d appreciate to see some initiative from him too, but I wouldn ' t hesitate expressing my feelings.
A lot of people tend to forget that both sides feel shy about this, and then keeps their feelings hidden deep inside.. It's understandable, opening up with deep thoughts such as this causes an impact regardless of the outcome. But is it better to just crush on a person? Or to know it will work out? It's a question of which an answer would make life a lot easier. I feel sad everytime I hear any boy or girl talk about how depressed they get, when their crush doesn't look at/notice them.
i guess it depends what you mean by a crush - I used to like somebody a lot and would probably still like him if I saw him on a regular basis but I have not see him since our mutual class ended last semester - there was another guy I also liked but he stopped showing up at bible study and I have not seen him in almost 3-5 weeks now and might never talk to him ever again. Then there is a guy I used to like who started avoiding me once I got too pushy but we are still friends - however we are friends without each other's phone numbers or contact info - we meet at bible study once a week. I don't really think about him even though I find him attractive. There are other guys I would date but I don't see them either because I don't have time to go to places that they hang out at.
Crushing extra hard. And suffering daily because we attend the same school. I get to see his face everyday and I fight the goddamn urge to hug/kiss him because I know that I'm a goddamn loser. Well hi, confidence. I'm afraid he might have someone and then hate me afterwards. Guess I'm kinda doomed.
I don't love this girl im talking with yet but she's really chill and she's definitely cute but I don't know if she has a boyfriend even though i believe she doesn't because she has her dad pick her up from college and she doesn't talk about any guys with me but I really wanna take her out to eat plus she even asked me if I cared to join her and her sister to eat lunch with them and that same day she was gonna take the bus home to meet her sister which was gonna take her a while and I asked her if she wanted a ride home. I gave her one and yea i just wanna go out with her
Sadly, I feel like I am. I feel like it makes me weak. I try not to crush on anyone. It's just sometimes I talk to a person and we establish a deep connection
When I was a teenager, I was unable to hide my feelings for him. I trembled every time I saw him. It was exciting at the same time because I had committed stupid mistakes, such as falling on my butt, I dropped my jaw, and so on. lol. Over time, I learned to keep it undetected.
I have a new crush. I could careless about him and I'm not interested showing him any interests. I even brainwashed myself that he will be another jerk I will leave. JK, he is my boss. I don't want to have problems even if he rejects me. Nevertheless, I value my integrity and be ethical.
I'm crushing so hard right now. xD & well, I don't dare to just tell him because I'm not sure how he feels about me. & that although I do want to date him, I'd still rather be friends than nothing at all, so yeah. Just telling him might destroy everything. I'm trying to give him signs, to make him think about that, but as he said himself, he's really bad with that stuff, so I'm not sure he's getting it. xD' I'll keep trying though, so far it could've gone a lot worse than it did.
He already knows I like him lol. I know he likes me, too, but we're both kinda shy so neither of us are making "moves" haha. He's just generally nice to me and we just stay friends because it's easier :)
My girlfriend and I started off as being friends for a long time as well. No need to rush what's already in a good state, yeah? If the time comes, you'll both be ready. :)
I think i am, on a friend who i think is or was crushing on me for a while, but his behaviour sometimes confuses me and i just dont know what to do and think.. we used to be close and he used to show a lot of signs but i didn't pay attention and now he's been acting weird (some days he's nice nd wants to hang out and some days he just flops on me or replies with two words if i try to talk to him) so my excuse is im scared and confused.
@HotDogg so if a guy (friend) acts hot and cold with a girl it means he might like her? .. i mean jst 2 days ago iasked him to hang out and he agreed, only to flop on me literally last min with no explanation or apology nd didn't reply to my message... guys are weird.. i am confused as hell and its making me sad too.
Yes, I'm pretty sure I act that way with this close friend I really like, but not on purpose! I can't tell if she likes me back or not and I don't want to scare her away. At times I think she does, but then I wonder if she is just being friendly. And then I will pull away because I don't want to risk our friendship.
@HotDogg oh yeah i get where you're coming from, the whole "is she flirting with me or jst being friendly" situation. So some guys act this way.. even be rude to their friend or crush just cuz theyre confused or scared or something? Well i didn't know that lol i thought he jst got sick of me randomly lmaoo. You shouldn't do that to your friend, cuz that will confuse her and make her pull away too and not like you at all.. even as a friend! Open up a little more and pay close attention to her bebaviour around you, if you want you can message me to let me know and ill tell you if she's being friendly or more ;)! And for myself whay should i do? Should i talk to him about what he jst did recently?
You're right, I can't help it though lol... there are times when I don't want to give away how much I like her. You're anonymous, so you'll have to initiate the messaging... it would be a huge help! lol I do go crazy about it all, maybe I could help you too.
Yes, definitely talk to him about ditching you! That's not cool even for friends. Maybe he has a good reason...
There's someone I like a lot and I have for a couple of years. We're friends, I suppose, and have similar interests and such. I will never make a move because he's a bit too old. Somehow I can't imagine living without him in my life somewhere.
Well, that's because I've told him before and I would tell him again, but I don't think we'll ever go anywhere even though it seems like he likes me too. But then again, I don't know because he's never verbally expressed it.
Well I don't develop crush but the rare times I would, I will just blast some hardcore shit music, go deadlift and forget about that :)
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Yes crushing on a couple girls right now. Hesitating partly because I'm shy but mostly because they already have boyfriends. Also still have feelings for an ex, but she left me and won't talk to me at all. So yeah, life kinda sucks right now.
Yes... 1) I rejected him in the past 2) his best friend and I used to be together 3) I really really like him and I'm scared
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Anonymous
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Yes I am, and because I know he would never like me like that. I've never even talked to him and if I just told him out of he blue that I liked him it would be really awkward
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Anonymous
(25-29)
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Yes. I can't tell him because he gives me this look 😾
Lol. The last face the little girl made, that's the face he makes everytime we make eye contact. Lol thats why I think he probably thinks I'm weird and hates me! So I'll just admire from afar :3
Really! It might mean that he likes you and is teasing you actually! Do you know him and have you talking to him before? There was a guy who liked me and would make faces and tell me I was his "mortal enemy" and stuff haha
@ebbyeb teasing? And no, we've never talked before. Well he said "hi" under his breath so I wasn't sure if it was directed to me so i ignored it. Now that I think of it, there was no one around us. So I feel bad now. There was a time when i was walking his way and he stood still with a straight face. I smiled and turned away, it was getting too intense. Not gonna lie, he scares me a little because of his straight faces.
Yeah honestly from what you're describing it sounds like he's interested! He's just going about it kinda weirdly. Maybe try approaching him and talking to him sometime! :) Just walk up when he doesn't look busy and ask "what's up?"
That's a good question actually, whether that's a thing.. Personally I'd say yes, we hear people saying things like "we fell in love all over again" and the like. :3
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