I got her number, now what?

[Anonymous]

i have done this a million times...i get her number then I don't know where to go from there...i need some tips guys, I met this girl in my school and got her number but I don't see her around anymore and our texts be lame.I will text her good morning...good nite...etc...but what are some interesting things I can do with her number

[toolt00l]

Calling her is a good idea, but texting isn't bad at all because that seems to be becoming the norm.

Anyway, here are the most crucial tips I've discovered...

1. Text her something funny or clever for the very first text. Don't try too hard, but at the same time don't send her something typical that anyone would say like "hey its____ what's up?" Make it at least a little unique so that she knows you're a unique guy.

2. Try to be flirty/funny in almost every text. Once again, know your limits and don't over do it. but the key is to get her interested in you before doing so in person.

3. Having conversation is OK, but you don't want to try to talk about EVERYTHING with her because it'll get boring and you'll run out of things to talk about in person.

4. Be careful not to respond too quickly. You want to come across interested, but don't over do it. Your probably busy, and she is too. If she sees that you respond 2 minutes after every text she sent you, she's gonna assume that she's your first social interaction in ages.

5. Definitely be sure to ask her out sometime if you don't call her. But if you feel that the opportunity never arises during a text conversation you can always do it some other time. That being said, don't worry about ending the conversation before she does. Don't put yourself in a position where she's the one who doesn't respond to a text you send. I've been there, and learned my lesson. Once again, it all comes down to moderation. You need to show this girl that you're interested but not putting all your eggs in one basket. If you have a nice conversation with her, don't over extend it but instead learn to know when to put down the phone. You can always text her again whenever you want, and eventually, when it feels right, ask her out to do something.

[-Asmo-]

Well, you can either use it as an opportunity to ask her things about herself and learn about her or you can ask her to catch up with you and do all that in person.

[justagirl3150]

Ummm...call her! I know this will come as a complete shock, but back in the old days (5 years ago) that's what phone numbers were originally used for!

Texting is OK for flirting and short spurts of communication (like you said, good morning/good night)...but it will get old REALLY fast. If you like her, you're gonna have to step it up! The girl isn't interested in being your digital pen pal!

Call her up and ask her out...have some plans prepared to suggest for your date and you'll stand out from the other boneheads who are probably still only texting her. Good Luck!

[funchick7]

ask 2 meet.and why would you ask just guys?find out first hand, not from what other guys think,WE KNOW WAT WE WANT You TO DO.

[-Asmo-]

I think he might have been meaning in the broader sense as in guys and girls :P

[Asker]

yes I was tlkin to both

[funchick7]

quote:

...i need some tips guys,

GUYS.

just saying.

[gummybear888]

talk to her, take her out, text?

[marlina200]

Maybe try calling her? Set up a date or something.

[Asker]

lol so yall would like a random call?

[justagirl3150]

It's not a random call...she gave you her number! That's what you're supposed to do with it! :)

[Anonymous]

How do you like them Apples?

[Anonymous]

Uh, ask her out...?