If a shy girl suggests hanging out in a group, is she interested or not?

[Anton23]

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Girl is recently out of 4 year relationship, as of 3 months ago.
She still seems really guarded and is not ready for a relationship.
We have went on one date, she said afterwards that she's not ready for dating.
She allready knows that I like her
I flirt with her very often (Tells me im very smooth)
She gives me direct eye contact
Smiles all the time around me.
Tells me i always make her smile or laugh.
Replies instantly to all my messages.
Tells me deeply personal things
I was having a bad day and she was messaging me saying (Im so glad i could get you to smile)
She brought me a slice of cake she baked for her birthday to our dance class and was worried that it wouldn't taste good.
She doesn't recoil at my touch.

I think she likes me but im so inexperienced I dont know how to read this, advice would be appreciated!

Likes me

doesn't like me

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PEOPLE THAT VOTE YES, PLEASE TELL ME WHY!

I really like her, and I'm struggling to work out if I'm doing the right thing and all that.

I have literally 0% knowledge of women haha

And need all the outside help and experience from you guys as possible!

[tomi77]

If she's shy then she's nervous. The group meet up will take the stress off it being just you two so there won't be any awkward happenings. I remember going on dates and feeling like I was about to die because I was so nervous about the date lol help her out and invite some friends

[Anton23]

Thank you for your input, im so confused with this girl.

Went on the date followed up by pushing too hard for second date, she said she didn't feel a connection. I think to push me away a little (Seemed guard on the date, ex must have done something but she was laughing alot)

Now that im in her dance class, I walk her back to her car after every class. we went on a 1on1 walk after one of the classes 30-40min, she was walking shoulder to shoulder to me bumping into me often and smiling/making eye contact.

I even got her to go see a doctor for a problem thats been with her for 2 years, apparently heaps of people tried but i succeed in getting her to go.

I think im doing good but I have no idea!

[tomi77]

I don't think you should feel discouraged. The little things do matter believe it or not. Especially with the quiet ones. I think what you're doing is the right thing, you're building up her trust and making a foundation of friendship. Boyfriends can do a lot of damage especially if it was unexpected or she didn't think he could be that way. But don't give up on her, if you got her to go see a doctor when nobody else could then I think that she already has an interest in you. I'm quiet and awkward so this is all coming from experience lol so you're very much welcome. Just go at her pace, she'll let you in when she's ready. Pushy guys are scary to us sometimes even if their attentions have nothing but goodness. She's probably worried of what will happen in the future if she decided to date you, that's why I'm saying to keep up the little things that you're doing and to make the dates as chill as possible. She'll come around

[Singingheaven]

I agree with Tomi77 go at her pace :) hopefully It will work out.

[Anton23]

what about the fact that she never asks me about me, sure about my day and that, but i mean whats my favourite colour, movie, what do i like to do?

I dont want to mention everything to her in passing, I would like her to ask me more about myself...

[Queen66]

it seems like she likes you and all, but just take it slow and be patient with her, cause she just got out of a relationship and maybe just wanna take it slow case she don't wanna rush anything.

[Anton23]

what about the fact that she never asks me about me, sure about my day and that, but i mean whats my favourite colour, movie, what do i like to do?

I dont want to mention everything to her in passing, I would like her to ask me more about myself...

[Queen66]

how about this, since it seems like you are the one that makes the first move with starting a conversation most of the time asking her how her day is and everything towards her extra, when you see her now just say hi to her and keep it moving, and do it for a while, if you don't act how you used to act, she will start coming up to you, because she might think that you are mad at her or something, if she ask you a question and this answer fits just tell her i don't wanna be pressing my feelings on you 24/7 i just wanna give you your space to breath... I don't know if this helped